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Hubby not on board yet...rant

mrsdarveauxmrsdarveaux member
edited July 2015 in Babies on the Brain
I'm so ready for baby #3. We have a boy 3 and girl almost 2. I have held off talking about another for a wile knowing he wasn't interested. But now I can't hold back and told him. At first he said no way. We have talked through it some and I'm trying to not be pushy or annoying. I want it to be a decision we are both happy about. Let me tell you I'm obsessing and I feel bad because I don't want to annoy him but it's driving me crazy. I wish he just wantrs it like me.Ugh rant over
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Re: Hubby not on board yet...rant

  • LavenderBrown1018LavenderBrown1018 member
    Baby fever is fierce, ain't it?! Good luck on your quest to get your hubby on board!
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  • bmo88bmo88 member
    mrsdarveaux: Is there a particular reason why he doesn't want a third child? Before having kids, did you both discuss how many you wanted in total? Has he been against 3 kids previously? 

    Not be a downer, but unfortunately, he may never be ready. Are you prepared for that? 

    Hoping he comes around though and best of luck!
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  • SchumeratorSchumerator member

    mrsdarveaux  I feel your pain! I am in the same boat but with TTC #1 :) He would be happier waiting until next year but then I fear he will say the next year and that he may never feel ready (even though he says he definitely wants kids) because he is very go with the flow and not a planner like I am!! I find not being pushy is what works best to bring my DH around :) Good luck to you!

    @LavenderBrown1018 It really is! I never ever thought I would be someone who would have such intense baby fever because I've never been a huge "kid person" but once it hit me it hit hard lol!

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