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Help :(

BonquiiquiiBonquiiquii member
in December 2015 Moms
im 4months pregnant i have started to grow and really show my baby bump and my baby daddy just left me we where totally fine and he was so happy with the pregnancy and everything then out of nowhere from one day to the next he said its over and only cares for the baby and doesnt love me anymore like he did he said we wont be together and im so depressed we been together 4years and we where doing great what did i do wrong im scared of being alone is he going through the shock and scare right now will he come back hes such a great person idk what made him flip out and run :(
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Re: Help :(

  • lmgagliardi@hotmail.comlmgagliardi@hotmail.com member
    I'm so sorry you are going through this and pregnant! Hopefully he just needs some time to calm down and get his head on. You two need to talk it out but I would give him some time to himself first just try not to get too stressed I know it's easier said then done but you need to look after yourself and your LO
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  • taysuntaysun member
    In addition to what PPs have said, I know it may seem hard to think about, but if the babies father definitely no longer wants a relationship with you but wants one with baby, consider looking into a lawyer and making a custody agreement. I have also heard that counseling is a good idea in a co parent situation.
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  • BonquiiquiiBonquiiquii member
    I just dont know whats going on my heart says hell come back but also that he might be serios im scared to loose him when everything was going great
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  • kdoak2015kdoak2015 member
    I would say give it some time and talk to him, but you need to give him some space as hard as that may be.
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  • BonquiiquiiBonquiiquii member
    I been doin that giving him space the no contact rule i havent seen him in a week i dnt text or call or answer yesterday he called to find out how everything was with the baby i told him about the appt today but im hopin theought tge ultrasounds hell realize n come back idk
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  • xrumxrum member
    good riddens, probably better this asshole is not part of your baby's life!
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  • misamimamisamima member
    Sorry to hear this. :(

    Give him the space he needs. If he comes back, great. If not, then you'll be just fine! Focus on taking care of yourself and the baby right now. It's the most important.

    Like PP said, if he does end up wanting to be involved with your baby, contact a lawyer to make custody arrangements.

    Good luck to you.
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  • ChiccoBeanzChiccoBeanz member
    I'm sorry to hear this as well. I suggest not focusing on him or what he has said or done. Aside from him maybe coming back, look at your other co-parenting options and see what you feel will work best for you. Do you have any friends or family that you can spend time with? If you do, do that. Have fun, create a registry, maybe speak to someone about your dream baby shower, read new mom books, think of baby names, read a regular book, watch some movies, get into a new series on netflix, go to the gym and do light workotuts approved by your Doc. There is so much you can do. Please don't be sad and alone at home. Don't torture yourself like that.  ** Sends you bump to bump hugs**
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