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when it rains it pours

WLJ2WLJ2 member
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Did I Intro On This board?? Just in case here is a quick one. I am in my mid 20 ' s and SO is in his early 30's. I have a son from a previous marriage and we are trying for our first together. We have been trying since March 2014 and had a mc at 7w a little over two weeks ago.

Now to the present. We decided that we would get back to ttc right away! I have been coping well with the mc with the exception of occasionally breaking down of the last few weeks. Last night so had a heart attack. Trying to cope has reached new difficulty at this point. Please say a prayer for us ladies. I would greatly approciate it.
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  • themattaweddingthemattawedding member
    Prayers sent! I hope for him a speedy recovery!
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  • MamaBishMamaBish member
    So sorry to hear this, sending positive thoughts!
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  • huskerfan246huskerfan246 member
    So sorry to hear this, sending prayers your way!
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  • letyourheartbeyourguideletyourheartbeyourguide member
    I'm so sorry! Thinking of you both!
      

         TTC #1 --- BFP #1 5/15, loss at 5 weeks --- BFP #2 12/15, loss at 4+3 --- RE testing 3/16 normal, still trying for our rainbow    

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  • carrieandrcarrieandr member
    How awful!  I'm so sorry!  Sending virtual hugs.
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
    BFP 2/16/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks      •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
    BFP 9/24/18  •      CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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  • MrsGargoyleMrsGargoyle
    I am so sorry for your loss, and for your partner's heart. T&Ps for a speedy and full recovery.

    All advice given based on lengthy personal experience.

    I am not a doctor, I just have a working medical vocabulary.

    Always available to answer questions about loss, infertility, and TRP.

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  • GhanimaAtreidesGhanimaAtreides member
    Oh no honey! I'm hoping that your SO is getting the best care and you're getting tons of info on how to help your SO recover and prevent any future recurrences.
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  • rachrobertsonrachrobertson member
    I am so sorry to hear that you are going through this so soon after a loss. Praying for your family!
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  • bntfroggiebntfroggie member
    My thoughts and prayers are with you.
    BFP 2/11/15 (EDD 10/13/15). MMC 3/30/15 D&C 4/3/15 "We will always love you"
    DD1 - BFP 7/23/15 (EDD 3/31/16).  "We believe in you rainbow" DOB 4/2/16
    DD2 - BFP 2/9/18 (EDD 10/19/18).  "Grow baby grow!" DOB 10/24/18
    BFP 11/16/20 (EDD 7/31/21).  "Round 3 FIGHT!"
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  • bananersbananers member
    Oh my gosh, so scary, especially for how young he is! I am so sorry you're dealing with this on top of everything.
    BFP #1 10/6/11 | EDD 6/15/12 | MMC 11/7/11 @ 8w3d | D&C 11/14/11

    BFP #2 8/22/12 | EDD 5/5/13 | DS1 born 5/9/13

    BFP #3 4/25/15 | EDD 1/7/16 | MMC 7/2/15 @ 13w1d | D&E 7/8/15

    BFP #4 12/9/15 | EDD 8/22/16 | DS2 born 5/18/16 at 26w2d

    Just keep swimming.
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  • athertonkathertonk member
    I'm so sorry! I can't imagine dealing with either of those situations, let alone both. Thoughts and prayers for you both, and wishing SO a speedy recovery.
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  • vintagevicevintagevice member
    Prayers and thoughts for you both!!! I'm so sorry for everything that has happened.
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