Almost 4 weeks ago I found I was pregnant with my first baby. I never thought I was pregnant simply bc I had been spotting the whole month and when I would ask my OB never got answers. Till one day my instinct told me to start taking care of myself and so I decided to test. 3 days after finding out I started bleeding and passed just one blood clot. I went to the ER based on the blood work and pelvis exam I was having a MC. They sent me home and told me to FU with my OB. My OB said they couldn't do anything for me to go back to the ER. Went to another ER & the HCG increase a little so they told me it could be early or indeed MC. Next day I go to a new OBgyn once again based just on urinalysis and pelvis tell me everything is fine that some woman do bleed and sent me home to come back in 4wks. Yesterday I started spotting a tiny bit, it's been weeks since I last spotted. Today I woke up to a regular bleed it's not consider spotting anymore and a lot of abdominal discomfort. This time I'm just going to wait it out at home. It's so heart breaking... Wednesday was my follow up appointment I would of been 9wks 2days. It's been 4 long weeks and I never got an US to see if indeed there was a baby so that didn't make non of this any easier. Now just waiting for the worst. How much more worst can it get...? ;(
Thank you ladies. I'm passing blood clots again which I did the first time as well just one and the same right now. Nothing unusual it's like if I'm having my period. I'm not hurting or anything, thank God but I will update what happens.
I suffered a miscarriage in january, my first pregnancy. It was devastating, especially because we told all our family and friends. It was also physically painful and I took 3 days off work. The only thing that made it better for me was time. The more time that passed the better I felt, but I also feel like I thing will cure this emptiness until I have a baby in my arms. I am pregnant again now but am possibly expecting another miscarriage any day because gestational age is delayed. I try to tell myself everyday to trust my body. Our bodies are doing all they can to have a healthy baby so if our bodies have decided to miscarry, they are looking after us. Waiting is hard, no words give comfort, and it seems like actually having a healthy pregnancy is unimaginable but we must trust our bodies that the day will come!!
I'm very sorry for you, it's such a scary thing to go through, and even sadder that the medical support is not there to help you. I wish you all of the best.
So sorry. I have been through it myself. Take care of yourself. Try to take time and focus on you and your partner. I found support in confiding in friends. Many have been through it, more than I realized.
Married 4-27-13 TTC for 1.5 yrs
41 yrs old; DH is 37
April 2014 MC at 9 wks
Jan 2015 Clomid, BFN
Feb 2015 Clomid, Ovidril, 1st IUI, BFN
Mar 2015 Clomid, Ovidril, 2nd IUI, BFN
May 2015 1st IVF, 19 follicles, 18 eggs retrieved on May 20, 13 fertilized, transferred 1 Blastocyst on May 25=BFP!; froze 2 Blastocysts
Full term healthy baby boy born on 2-11-16 Jan 29, 2018: FET Feb 8. 2018: BFP! Mar 6: weak heartbeat.
Re: It's happening, heart broken...
So sorry!
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Married since 8/7/10
TTC for 1.5 yrs
Jan 29, 2018: FET
Feb 8. 2018: BFP!
Mar 6: weak heartbeat.
BFP 6.8.2018 EDD 02.18.2019