It's happening, heart broken...

auntietobe16 · June 2015

Almost 4 weeks ago I found I was pregnant with my first baby. I never thought I was pregnant simply bc I had been spotting the whole month and when I would ask my OB never got answers. Till one day my instinct told me to start taking care of myself and so I decided to test. 3 days after finding out I started bleeding and passed just one blood clot. I went to the ER based on the blood work and pelvis exam I was having a MC. They sent me home and told me to FU with my OB. My OB said they couldn't do anything for me to go back to the ER. Went to another ER & the HCG increase a little so they told me it could be early or indeed MC. Next day I go to a new OBgyn once again based just on urinalysis and pelvis tell me everything is fine that some woman do bleed and sent me home to come back in 4wks. Yesterday I started spotting a tiny bit, it's been weeks since I last spotted. Today I woke up to a regular bleed it's not consider spotting anymore and a lot of abdominal discomfort. This time I'm just going to wait it out at home. It's so heart breaking... Wednesday was my follow up appointment I would of been 9wks 2days. It's been 4 long weeks and I never got an US to see if indeed there was a baby so that didn't make non of this any easier. Now just waiting for the worst. How much more worst can it get...? ;(

snarky14jd · June 2015

Are you bleeding through a pad an hour, that's when my doctors say to call them.

minivanmafia · June 2015

Im sorry honey, seems like you have had a roller coaster of a ride. FX for you! Xo

SarahS06 · June 2015

I'm so sorry you have to go through all of this. Take care of yourself

cantobean · June 2015

I'm really sorry. Take care of yourself.

ArchyFlores · June 2015

I'm so sorry! Hopefully you get some answers.

FreshBakedBrownies · June 2015

That's terrible you've been bounced around to different doctors and ob/gyns. Why hasn't any of them done a transvaginal ultrasound yet?
So sorry!

auntietobe16 · June 2015

No I'm not. Not even the first time.

auntietobe16 · June 2015

Thank you ladies. I'm passing blood clots again which I did the first time as well just one and the same right now. Nothing unusual it's like if I'm having my period. I'm not hurting or anything, thank God but I will update what happens.

kdlinmg1 · June 2015

I suffered a miscarriage in january, my first pregnancy. It was devastating, especially because we told all our family and friends. It was also physically painful and I took 3 days off work. The only thing that made it better for me was time. The more time that passed the better I felt, but I also feel like I thing will cure this emptiness until I have a baby in my arms. I am pregnant again now but am possibly expecting another miscarriage any day because gestational age is delayed. I try to tell myself everyday to trust my body. Our bodies are doing all they can to have a healthy baby so if our bodies have decided to miscarry, they are looking after us. Waiting is hard, no words give comfort, and it seems like actually having a healthy pregnancy is unimaginable but we must trust our bodies that the day will come!!

MrsJG3 · June 2015

I am so sorry you are going through this. Like pp said if your are soaking a pad an hour you need to go in.

4N6s · June 2015

I'm so sorry

Sprinkles07 · June 2015

So sorry.

HBirdie · June 2015

Thoughts and prayers.

auntietobe16 · June 2015

Thank you ladies I'm back at the ER waiting and waiting.

birdieMila · June 2015

Im so sorry, thinking of you!

miritako · June 2015

I'm very sorry for you, it's such a scary thing to go through, and even sadder that the medical support is not there to help you. I wish you all of the best.

KaaaaaatieRN · June 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss.

northstar13 · June 2015

So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you.

wisco29 · June 2015

Sorry. T&p

ambdtb · June 2015

So sorry. I have been through it myself. Take care of yourself. Try to take time and focus on you and your partner. I found support in confiding in friends. Many have been through it, more than I realized.