October 2015 Moms

ONE THING.....

Right, im a lurker mainly, who will comment on posts if i have an experience but tend to stay in the background because people seem to jump on others and I'd rather watch with my pop corn than be in the midst of it ;)

So as its friday... Everyone named one thing that has either made you so, so happy this week, or one thing you need to rant about.. GO..!!!

Mine: my fiance! Ive never gone from wanting to snuggle someone, to wanting to throttle someone so much! I know us pregnant hormonal women are probably a pain in the ar$e but sometimes i think he either does things on purpose to wind me up, or hes lost the ability to be understanding lol. xxx

Re: ONE THING.....

  • Happy: I SAW baby move which was trippy and awesome and alien-like and I'm just waiting for that sci-fi experience to reoccur! 

    Vent: I've been soooooo sick to the point where doc thought it might be preeclampsia (heart palpitation, severe nausea, unprecedented back pain, seeing stars, swelling extremities... shall I go on? Thank God it's not that.) but I ended up just being malnourished and dehydrated despite my best attempts at avoiding becoming so-- which makes me feel like a god awful mother... which is only exacerbated by how freaking. horrible. it's made me feel physically.  
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  • Happy: we signed for our new house! Yay! Took room measurements and am starting to plan where all the furniture goes. I love designing rooms, so I can't wait to (finally) start on the nursery!

    Vent (work related): When you send someone an email, the least they could do is respond with a 'sure, we can do the thing,' or 'no, really can't do the thing right now.' Instead I hear nothing, even after repeated emails. Now my boss is pressuring me for an answer, so I have to be a pest and try to track down the person I need the answer from. Maybe I should pitch a tent outside their office... Grr...~X(
  • Happy: MIL called us from CA (we're in Asia) to say that she bought stuff for her first grandchild and that she's having them shipped this week. I'm super excited since I'm a ftm! Also, she taught me and gave me lots of advice about giving birth and the pain I'm gonna go through soon. She also kinda helped naming our boy. I'm really happy to know she's very excited for us too.

    Sad (not really a vent): Today, I misplaced my husband's left shoe. He almost got late today because of that. Luckily he has other shoes. He left in kind of a bad mood that lasted until went home. I REALLY tried looking for that missing shoe but gaaahd I just couldn't. He was really bothered by it (because it is his very favorite) so he searched by himself even though he's already tired. After a few hours, he found it in the laundry bin. He came to me and told me about it and I just felt that he got super tired and irritated with what happened that I just suddenly burst into tears, which I don't normally do. Ohhh! Pregnancy brain and hormones!
    (PS. he hugged and kissed me when he saw me cry..and said that it's ok and that I should stop crying. What he did made me cry even more. Haha!)
  • Happy: We're leaving for a week long beach vacation with my in-laws tomorrow. They aren't asking us to pitch in for the condo, just to pay for our own food when eating out and entertainment. Yay!

    Vent: My husband has been waiting patiently for a month to hear from the school he was promised a job at about his job. The school is waiting on the school board. July 21, where y'at?!? >.> Each passing day, I get more anxious and upset. Hiding it from him is hard, but I know if he sees me so upset about it, he will feel worse. He's trying so hard. Wednesday he had an interview at my Alma Mater and the location is so convient for when Baby gets here. We'll hear back on that before the 3rd. Hoping he gets offered that position. Fingers crossed, y'all.
  • Happy: Had a cool day this week, so I finally don't feel quite so overheated!

    Vent: If people can't just be a little understanding, I wish they would just not say anything! Tired of the criticism from people who are on the outside of my situation!
  • Happy: my job as a nanny for 2 families (2 baby boys) ends today and I won't be getting another job before baby comes. I'm super excited to work on things in my etsy store and plan for baby girl's arrival! ( especially since we are most likely moving across the country)

    Vent: my husband is gone this weekend in Seattle for a job interview and is spending time with my 3 best high school friends that I still am super close with! All the while I'm packing our life into boxes! I'm not mad at all just a little jealous that he's having fun, in what will hopefully be our new city, while I'm packing!
  • Happy. Went to the beach this morning and almost no one was there!

    Vent... don't rly have one at the moment. I'm sure I will think of a good one in about five seconds.
  • Happy: I have two! First, we raided IKEA and decked out the nursery. I love it!

    Second, my OB called me boring today at my 24- week appointment. I've never been so happy to be called boring!

    No real complaints from me today, so I won't go searching for them :)
  • Happy: enjoying this first week off of work. I've been sleeping nonstop since school let out

    Vent: I've really enjoyed this board. I'm an avid reader, and post when I can add something meaningful. I come on today to catch up and people are getting banned and regular posters are feeling like they can't post freely. That's a major bummer thinking this board is going to get dry because people are report happy.
  • babywuwuf said:

    Happy: MIL called us from CA (we're in Asia) to say that she bought stuff for her first grandchild and that she's having them shipped this week. I'm super excited since I'm a ftm! Also, she taught me and gave me lots of advice about giving birth and the pain I'm gonna go through soon. She also kinda helped naming our boy. I'm really happy to know she's very excited for us too.

    Sad (not really a vent): Today, I misplaced my husband's left shoe. He almost got late today because of that. Luckily he has other shoes. He left in kind of a bad mood that lasted until went home. I REALLY tried looking for that missing shoe but gaaahd I just couldn't. He was really bothered by it (because it is his very favorite) so he searched by himself even though he's already tired. After a few hours, he found it in the laundry bin. He came to me and told me about it and I just felt that he got super tired and irritated with what happened that I just suddenly burst into tears, which I don't normally do. Ohhh! Pregnancy brain and hormones!
    (PS. he hugged and kissed me when he saw me cry..and said that it's ok and that I should stop crying. What he did made me cry even more. Haha!)

    Hahaha sorry but the lost shoe did make me chuckle! My fiance is always nice to me when i cry and that makes me even worse. I cant stand all this sobbing, i never used to cry like this x
  • tate62610 said:

    Happy: it's our 5 year wedding anniversary :)

    Vent: we've lived in this house 6 months and have already put about $17K into it with all the crap that keeps going wrong. It's so frustrating. We just weren't ready for all of this to hit at once. We bought a house built in 2000 to avoid this very thing. It's all happening right as both vehicles are having problems too and we're less than 4 months out from having a second baby.

    Happy anniversary hun! X
  • Happy: To be alive today, to have woken up and felt the baby moving around (which my anterior placenta has hindered thus far). Im thankful for my amazingly supportive husband and our sweet fur babies. It's also Friday, so I tend to be unusually chipper and grateful for everything in life at the beginning of the weekend.

    Vent: Getting ready to embark on a 12 day vacation back home. We leave a week from today but the anxiety is setting In. I'm the people pleaser and both of our families are demanding of time. I am also super excited because this will be our last trip to MO. for a long while.
  • Happy: it's Friday! And we are painting the nursery tomorrow.

    Vent: Still stressed about sending my fur babies outside for too long since we found a rattlesnake in the backyard on Tuesday. And had my 24 week check up and saw a different OB in the practice. I have white coat syndrome and of course my BP was up. She is making me come back in 2 weeks for a BP check, and chart my BP at home. My regular OB wouldn't have made me do that!!

    Here's the pic of the rattlesnake that was in our back yard. It was about 4 feet long!! It's a timber rattler.
  • MamaOwl15MamaOwl15 member
    edited June 2015
    Happy: nothing makes me happy like watching my two-year grow up. Yesterday, the mattress for DD's crib arrived and he got all excited, saying "baby, mattress!" and when I was adjusting the height of the crib we was watching and trying to "help" and kept saying "baby, girl." He pauses in between words any time he says a sentence and it cracks me up. I'm so looking forward to when he actually gets to meet his baby sister.

    Vent: ugh, cars, cars, cars why do you have to be so necessary. After finding out yesterday that our car only needs a simple $130 repair to fix its engine overheating problem, we found out today that we can't even fix the broken hood latch without spending a total of $3500 or so worth of additional body work that I swear is mostly just cosmetic. Two body shops quoted me similar prices today and basically says it's all or nothing. And we can't pass inspection (due in July) without getting these repairs done.

    Edit to add: I'm thankful for my husband. I'm thankful I don't have to deal with stressful times or celebrate joyous times alone.

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  • Happy: it's Friday! And we are painting the nursery tomorrow.

    Vent: Still stressed about sending my fur babies outside for too long since we found a rattlesnake in the backyard on Tuesday. And had my 24 week check up and saw a different OB in the practice. I have white coat syndrome and of course my BP was up. She is making me come back in 2 weeks for a BP check, and chart my BP at home. My regular OB wouldn't have made me do that!!

    Here's the pic of the rattlesnake that was in our back yard. It was about 4 feet long!! It's a timber rattler.

    Omg, I'd freak out if i found that in my garden lol i dont blame u for not wanting ur furbabies out there for too long x
  • Happy= the pasta and garlic knots I just ate

    Vent= I don't really have anything to complain about, I guess I could say how full I now feel from overeating :-) or the loud birds in my chimney. Yea def that!
  • Happy- I just made an amazing taco salad. And enough to have another round of it in a couple hours (today I am a prepared pregnant lady). And, our best friend has agreed to cosign on a house for us, so we can officially start the process of buying a home!

    Vent- it is 100 degrees in Oregon. We do not have central air because we rent and well, it's Oregon. My bedroom ac cannot keep up so it's 74 (and rising) in my only place of comfort and 85 (and rising) in the rest of my house. I am so hot and uncomfortable.

    Adding the thankful category as well- my husband has been semi sweet even though he had to get a tooth pulled today. He's been getting me whatever food I want (to not cook) and back rubs to help with how uncomfortable I am.
  • Happy- We made our registry and I am in love with the nursery furniture I picked out. We are a week away from owning our first house and having the freedom to decorate as we want so this is big for us. (Still in negotiations on how to paint the room though.)

    Vent- I knew that bladder control was an issue in late pregnancy, but I am only 22 weeks and I leak pee every time I sneeze. . . Which seems to be every 5 minutes these days.
  • Happy, after a longgggg work week it's Friday !!!

    Vent- the other nurse is out of our office again next week. But thankful it's just a 4 day work week.
  • cmjn94cmjn94 member
    Happy: pizza and a movie with husband!

    Vent: back spasms keeping me up at night!
  • Happy: grateful to be pregnant with a healthy baby. I see so many unfortunate situations with women every day whether it be trisomy 18, mermaids syndrome, conjoined twins, incompetent cervix, low amniotic fluid. I'm just so grateful for this pregnancy. Vent: having a sleepover with 4 boys ages 7-9 and I'm sick of wiping pee off the toilet seat every 15 minutes that I have to go to the bathroom.
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