My SO and I have 4 girls combined, ranging in ages 12-9. The girls wanna be involved in everything and since his daughters are only with us on the weekends I try to find as many ways as I can to make them feel included. Someone suggested a way to keep them involved at the baby shower.... Letting them open my gifts, of course I would be sitting with them doing it. Would you think it was cute to see the "big sisters" helping? Or is it tacky to let them do it?