November 2015 Moms

sex positions ;)

Ok I haven't seen a discussion about this so here it is... I was just thinking what is a comfortable position for you guys with our growing bellies cuz I'm getting tired of the same old thing lol I know TMI sorry but iv been wanting to ask this for like a week now. :\">

Re: sex positions ;)

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  • Reverse cowgirl but I like him to sit up for that one :)
  • I lay on my left side and put my bottom leg between his two legs and the top leg around his right leg. It is the absolute best, pregnant or not, but definitely while i have this huge belly!
  • Falchas said:

    This is by no means adventurous, but right now, with leg cramps...sore hips...sore back...general exhaustion:  I'm loving missionary with a few pillows under my hips/sacrum.  A supported bridge for those yogis out there.  It's like I can get into a better position without having to do to much actual moving.  Huzzah for lazy sex!

    I love lazy sex!
  • urby87urby87 member
    mistycray said:
    I lay on my left side and put my bottom leg between his two legs and the top leg around his right leg. It is the absolute best, pregnant or not, but definitely while i have this huge belly!
    Same, but on my right side.
  • Lol this is awesome.... my husband and I usually start out in missionary and end up with me on top so I'll mention some of these to him and see what happens lol thank you ladies ;)
  • kwaldykwaldy member
    I'm dying over the lazy sex comment :P
  • With this one missionary is still good as long as he props himself up on his arms. But with my DD towards the end we did the spooning, and a lot of doggy style... Also, if he can try having him sit up then put your legs over his while laying on your back, a whole new feeling, you still get to be lazy, no belly squashing, makes you feel a little tighter for him and he gets a real good view.
  • hlz128hlz128 member
    I'm kinda stuck with missionary because anything else is still kinda painful and causes a lot of discomfort. We've tried different stuff but always end up back to the usual.
  • We like to have me bent over the back of the couch in a kneeling position (so on the couch part). However we are kinda ridiculously adventurous and sometimes that position is too much and we have to switch it up..... ;)
  • Il be short.. Doggie style- where he does all the work!
  • We tend to start missionary but end up with me on top or doggy style. My bump is not that big yet so we will need to get creative in no time
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  • Noey80Noey80 member
    Just move around until you find something that works for you. My husband is 6'6 and I'm 5'5 things can be pretty tricky sometimes.
  • There are a lot of books of sex positions out there, and many of the books have specific positions that are suitable for during pregnancy. I think one of Sadie Allison's books does, though I can't remember which off the top of my head.
  • I feel like sometimes he forgets im pregnant and just goes at it. We still do every position and are quite adventurous as we were before.
  • Doggy style for sure. Anything else I pretty much get too uncomfortable.
  • I'm a little surprised that so many go doggy style for me its to uncomfortable and yes I know everybody is different just a little surprised. And yeah my husband is around 6'4 and I'm 5'1 so not everything lines up as well as I'd like lol..... lmao MadBloom!
  • We still go for missionary, but he's mentioning being able to feel my bump recently while on top, but he props himself up on his arms. I climb on top every now and then too. Doggy style works, but I've never been much of a fan, makes it feel more impersonal to me.
  • On my back, at the edge of the bed and he's standing.
    Doggie, I put pillows under my shoulders to keep weight off the bump.
    I'm not liking missionary anymore, he forgets and suffocates me.
    Most of the girl on top works too
  • pgarci44pgarci44 member
    edited June 2015
    I've always been the lazy one pregnant or not lol so missionary or doggy ;;)
  • Reverse cowgirl has been my favorite for this pregnancy haha, I'm not liking missionary at all, lol I keep feeling like the baby will get squished or something
  • Who needs a book when you have The Bump!!!!!! :)
  • Girl on top..any direction. ( face to face, face to sides , face to legs).
    Also legs together, laying on side on the edge of the bed. He stands off the bed and holds your booty and knees...kind of. It gives him leverage while your comfy on your side with legs open or closed..whatever works
    Doggy works too, but I would advise slow strokes. If not belly bounces and feels weird...to me.
    ;)
  • Girl on top works great for us...any direction ( facing him, facing side -love this, and facing his feet.
    Also a good one is legs closed, laying on your side on the edge of the bed, while he is standing off the bed. pulls me a little off the bed and he says that helps and I'm comfortable because I'm on my side.
    Doggy style is ok but I feel like the baby is getting bounced around so slow strokes work.
  • We aren't doing anything differently now as I am 19 weeks and barely have a bump, but DH and I were just talking yesterday about late pregnancy sex and how hilarious it is.
    It just gets to a point where you just kind of roll around groaning trying to find a comfortable position. So funny.
  • Since this got brought up... I need help...
    When we have sex, it feels like he is pulling my insides out.. is there lube out there that is safe for pregnancy? This really sucks. And honestly, I feel bad for my DH.
  • @emilyxpartlow astroglide is a water based lube and is safe to use . I have the exact same problem it's kinda painful but that always helps !
  • I swear by the "lazy" side sex. ie: spooning. Me Angled forward a bit or more (depends on his thrusts - I'm not afraid to voice slower or faster) for maximum penetration and if it's not getting me there quick enough I'll definitely diddle my clitoris while he goes at it behind me (still side sex)

    If that's too explicit my apology buuuut hey, 2nd trimester kicked in and I'm hot and heavy while he's got cold feet most of the time. He gets wigged out constantly that we are "shaking" the bae. So silly.
  • So jealous of all of you! I have 0 desire to have sex. 0
  • Ugh, husband is out of state (and has been since thurday) and my mum is visiting at the moment. Im considering suggesting she and kiddo1.0 go visit MiL for the weekend because when DH gets back I'm quite likely to pounce on him...
  • I'm digging the rocking recliner w oral sex from hubs right now! The rocking is awesome & comfy!
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