My LO is 9 weeks old and interestingly enough until about a week ago I just thought crying this much was normal. I feel dumb typing that. I got together with a few friends with babies the same age, who were able to hold a convo during their day trip and do things, whereas I was trying to calm a hysterical baby the entire time. They asked me if the dr mentioned colic and I said no not really.
I had an appointment with my dr that week and as he was crying throughout the visit asked if something could be wrong? He ruled out certain things after a few tests and said that basically it seems he is colicky and his recommendation is to do what I can to keep him calm.
Anyway - I hate complaining bc for that hour of happy time I get during the day he is of course perfect.
I am hopeful that people have words of wisdom, advice - anything! When did your babies colic end?
Re: Colic advice/help!!!
Also, I bought a big exercise ball to bounce on with him and that quiets him right down. I read that it makes him feel similar to being in the womb while I walked around. At night before bed I give my little man a warm bath and put a wash cloth on his tummy. He loves baths so this helps quiet him down. Another thing I did was look up some exercises on pinterest that I can do while holding him and the movement of that helps quiet him down too. Also, wearing him in a wrap helps.
We also discovered that on top of colic our little man has reflux which also was one of the reasons he would cry a lot. Since we started him on the reflux medication he will sleep for 4-6 hour spans at night.
Hope some of that helped!
Also, don't be hard on yourself. I honestly didn't know my little man was colicky until the pediatrician was asking us questions about it because he cried so much during an appointment. I wouldn't really of known either until she said something. I'm a ftm too.
Just wanted to add that bouncing on the exercise ball works so well that we made both sets of grandparents get a ball for their houses!
Remember to put baby down and go in a different room for 10-15 minutes if you feel overwhelmed. Try to recruit someone, a friend or grandparent, to relieve you for little or long periods of time.
Also, you had said you thought this much crying was normal, this is your new normal, so try not to compare your baby to others. I did this a lot with my first, which led me to jealousy, anger at my own baby and a lot of self pity... Pretty ugly traits. Just remember, everything is a phase, and this too shall pass.