Any Mama's had a VBAC or considering one this time? Struggling to make a decision (I know I have a while, but woke up at 2 am this morning thinking about it). I haven't really talked to my OB yet, just mentioned I'd like to try. When I had my C-section in 2011 the nurses at the hospital mentioned that the hospital supported VBAC, but I know things could change. Really not much choice in hospitals or OB practices - I live in a very rural area (the next closest hospital that I would consider giving birth at is 2 hours away) - so not sure what I'll do if my OB isn't really supportive.
Re: Repeat C-Section VS VBAC??
I know it's still a while away but I find myself thinking about it a lot. My new doc is very big into VBACS but it's still a scary decision to make!
Honestly if I was a doctor, I would roll my eyes too. And hope that they would hate me and go to another doctor so I would be free of the liability .
I don't mean that to be offensive, and I hope if you go with VBAC it will be a wonderful great experience. But I had to play the devils advocate here.
I was offered a VBAC with my second, but I was warned that I may not be the best candidate. Ultimately I decided to just do the repeat c/s. I had a good experience the first time and felt it was the safest choice for me and the baby, since I wasn't the best candidate anyway. It was the right decision. My son was 10 lbs 3 oz and also totally stuck in my pelvis. I'm just not meant to birth vaginally.
I've seen the devastating things that can happen after a VBAC gone bad. I think unless you are an optimal candidate and your practice has a very high success rate, it's not worth the risk.
Also, your desired family size can influence your decision. I want a large family so a vbac in the long run will be a better option for me than multiple repeat c sections. But if you are only having 2 kids, 2 c/s is relatively low risk for complications.
Basically it comes down to risk: with a vbac, you are taking on the risk at that birth. With a c/s, you postpone the risk to your next delivery, and the risk compounds with subsequent c sections. Both options can be catastrophic but usually not fatal.
Sorry I wrote so much! I am very interested in this topic!
Good luck with your decision!
The purpose of me sharing this is that you can plan for a VBAC and have no issues or you can plan for one and still end up with another c-section. Good luck!
I do believe that my first c-section was a result of too much intervention. We decided to induce at 40+1 (my husband felt that because the doctor mentioned it that we should do it - my cousin had lost her baby at 40 weeks a year earlier and had refused an induction a day prior - he was terrified this would happen to our son). Had a foley bulb, pitocin, and my waters broken. Was also on continuous fetal monitoring so every time his heart rate dipped I was told to lay on my back in the bed. I personally think had I went into labor on my own and been allowed to move around like I wanted I would not have needed the surgery. I just don't think my body was ready.
It was over two hours after he was born before I got to hold my son and I resent that. I should have had that time with him - not some random nurse.
I've heard some about "gentle" or "family-centered" c- sections where your arms aren't strapped down and you can hold and nurse your baby while you get stitched up. Anyone have any experience with that?
I say if they let you try, go for it. It could mean future vaginal births for you too.