I am erasing this post because it doesn't make sense and I was overwhelmed and scattered brain. Sorry. Thank you all for the replys. I don't know how to delete this post/ thread.
Your post is incredibly hard to read. With that said, my response is the same as when you posted about your MIL issues the other day. "Stop allowing her to get to you". It is now your SO's responsibility to set boundaries as you seem to have a problem doing (and really it's his mother so he should). In regards to your neighbor, I would have kindly walked right over there, told her to "mind her damn biz" and went back to enjoy my baby shower. It just sounds like so much drama at an event that's supposed to be celebratory.
Please don't take this as sounding mean because I'm ginuine here-you have to toughen up a bit. Life is always going to have people who create drama or make you feel bad about yourself or decisions that you make (especially becoming a mom). You either face it and respond appropriately or move on.
Sorry I had to read it again because there is a lot going on. I'm sorry you had a miscarriage. I had one too and truthfully, I didn't mind that people knew. I always felt worse when I saw the look on their faces after I told them I had lost the baby. Some MIL's talk. Like you said, you're stuck with her. I'd move on and worry about baby coming.
I agree that this was difficult to read but from what I gather, there were two very upsetting events that happened to you and I'm sorry for that. I also had my baby shower yesterday, was absolutely overwhelmed with the amount of people who came and the gifts they gave to us, and could not have asked for a better day. That's how it should have been for you as well and I'm very sad you didn't get to experience that.
I'm sorry everyone. My brain is overloaded and really hard to process everything. I guess I can't write a proper sentence and I have scattered brain. How do I delete this thread ?
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Please don't take this as sounding mean because I'm ginuine here-you have to toughen up a bit. Life is always going to have people who create drama or make you feel bad about yourself or decisions that you make (especially becoming a mom). You either face it and respond appropriately or move on.
GL.