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Ugh...I need to go on a rant

navssonavsso member
in August 2015 Moms
so ive been having pre term contractions since I hit 30 weeks and have been in the hospital multiple times for meds to slow them down...they said she can come any time but hopefully not for a couple more weeks...so tonight my boyfriend is supposed to go to a batch party and I've been acting like it doesn't bother me I'll be alone all night while his family and my family are out of town so I'll be alone if something happens....I'm trying not to act upset but I'm emotional....am I wrong for being upset?? What would y'all do?
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Re: Ugh...I need to go on a rant

  • mommyofXmommyofX member
    I don't think ur over reacting. I'd be nervous too! Especially when your doctor said "it could be any time now". How far are they going from you? And you should let ur hubby know that it's making you scared/anxious or whatever that he's leaving after what the DR. Said. But since he is going.. HE and a few others NEED to be on high alert and have their phone on vibrate so they can feel their phone if you need him to come home.

    I hope everything works out and ur little angel stays out for as long as u want her too. I'm only 29 weeks and I wish I could be to the point where he's fully developed n it would be okay if he came. Lol but at least till after my showe in mid July!
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  • SassetteSmurflingSassetteSmurfling member
    I would just ask him to not drink too much and keep his phone on just in case. Also I know you said your families are out of town, but what about a close friend you can just let know that you'll be alone for the night and could they be around in case you need something.
    Good luck!
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  • J&D2007J&D2007 member
    I wouldn't ask him to stay home if that's what you're thinking. I am sure he is able to act responsibly and have only a few drinks and keep his phone on him. I'm sure he really needs a night out too.
    Me: 37, DH: 38: ttc 7 years, dx: unknown
    10/11: after 2 years, saw a RE, FSH 5.4
    11/11: BFP! (surprise after thyroid & normal hsg),
    12/11: missed m/c after 7 week u/s, 1/12: D&C
    6/12 IUI#1-IUI #3: clomid = BFP!, C/P
    IVF #1(10/12) FSH 5.4, AFC: 16 long Lupron, 5R/5M/4F, all 4 made it to 5dt, 1 blast/1-8 cell transferred=BFN
    IVF #2(12/12)AFC 21, MD lupron, 4R/4M/3F, 5dt of 1 blast and 2-8cell. BFN.
    IVF#3(4/13) Natural start antagon protocol, 12R,11F. one PGS normal at day 6 transfer. BFN.
    IVF#4 (11/13) C.CRM (ODW.U normal 8/13 Still no Diagnosis) EPP/antagonist. ER 13R/7M/6F. Only 1 made it to freeze. Abnormal. Looking into options of DE, Fresh vs frozen.
    10/14 new local RE to look into what's next. CD3 FSH 4.7, AMH 0.9. Met with DE agencies and exploring options for feb/march 2015.
    Surprise natural bfp (4 days before donor is signed). Beta #1 at 9dpo: 51.8, 2nd beta: 195 (25 hours doubling) @11dpo. 3rd beta (12/15): 516 (35 hrs doubling) 4th beta(12/17): 895 (58 hours doubling) 5th beta(12/19): 2120. U/S at 5w0d(12/22): one gestational sac with yolk sac. U/S #2 (6w0d)12/29. One little bean measuring 6w0d with HR 124. 3rd u/s(1/4)7w0d: baby measuring 7w2d. HR 134. 3/30: A/S at MFM went great except for low lying placenta. Verifi results are normal! Team Blue! Please send any positive thoughts our way! EDD:8/24/2015
    Baby Will born 8/18. He's perfect.
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  • navssonavsso member
    We just moved so I don't really know anyone around here. And oh no I wasn't going to tell him not to go only problem is when he starts drinking he doesn't stop...my only concern. I also think I'm more worried cuz I've been having contractions all day.
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