As you have every right to be! You should be very proud of yourself. You've put together nearly 365 days, one day at a time. Keep up the great work! Keep working your program and remember how proud you will be to be able to be the mom that your LO deserves and hopefully he or she will never have to know you as an addict.
Congratulations!! Hitting that one year mark is HUGE!!! I know how hard it is and that is some very serious and difficult work you are doing but very rewarding. =D> The strength and resilience it takes is no joke. My story: I've been sober for 2.78 years >:D< (I have an app that counts the hours/days/months/years). My sober birthday is August 15th so almost 3 years! DH will have 2 years in September and neither of us have relapsed since we chose the sober life for ourselves It's the best thing we ever did: after I stopped drinking I finally graduated with my B.S. in MCD Biology. This year alone we got bought a house, got married, and got pregnant! DH also stepped up in his responsibility at work, which has allowed me not to need to work at all. All of these blessings would not have happened if either of us were drinking. I thank my lucky stars every day! My dad committed suicide when I was 12 years old due to a combination of alcoholism and bi-polar disorder and it makes me feel good to know I will never put my child through what I went through.
I'll have 6 years sober in July. Im working on baby #4. #1 came when I had 2 years. It seriously is awesome to know we are able to give our children so much more than we could have before this. Both of my parents died when I was 19 from liver failure related to alcohol. Its been a long journey,and with rigorous work I still keep it all together. Always do what I can to keep life exciting, even with the kids - getting out with them whenever I can helps keep me centered - exercise plus the outdoors - refeshing. Keep up the great work and congratulations! !
Thanks ladies for the support and for the ladies that shared their story. I knew I couldn't be the only one. I'm so thankful for this new life and hope and pray I keep it one day at a time. Xoxoxo
I know I posted before but I really wanted to take a second and say again great job to you and all the other mommas on here!! It is amazing that you all have made such improvements in your lives! I don't really know any of you but reading these make me so proud of each of you! It takes great courage and strength to overcome addictions! GREAT JOB!!
I'll have 6 years sober in July. Im working on baby #4. #1 came when I had 2 years. It seriously is awesome to know we are able to give our children so much more than we could have before this. Both of my parents died when I was 19 from liver failure related to alcohol. Its been a long journey,and with rigorous work I still keep it all together. Always do what I can to keep life exciting, even with the kids - getting out with them whenever I can helps keep me centered - exercise plus the outdoors - refeshing. Keep up the great work and congratulations! !
My mom died when I was 25 from the same thing. I'm sorry you had to go through that so young. It's not a fun journey. But it looks like your doing great which is all that matters now.
Congrats! I'm in recovery as well.....almost 9 months! We are so blessed that our little one won't ever see us the way we "were." ! What a powerful motivation huh?
The first year is the hardest one to get through!!! And thank god your little one will see you sober. By the grace of god I got sober July 13, 2008 so hopefully will have 7 next month. We are pregnant with our first and couldn't feel more blessed to bring a life into a sober home full of love. One day at a time!!
I met a woman once who was in recovery (well..withdrawal and then hopefully recovery) for meth addiction, very late in her pregnancy. I was in an interesting position because usually it's so easy to judge, but she and I were actually both under a 5150 (psychiatric hold, for different reasons) and sharing a room together.
I've worked with lots of mothers suffering from addictions of all kinds, so I had sort of grown impatient and cold toward that lifestyle. But when I met this woman I realized that underneath the surface, which can be so easy to judge and misinterpret, is incredible strength through recovery - or even the will to try.
She told me something I'll never forget, to "do something for yourself everyday." Although I wasn't in the facility because of drugs, she and I could relate on other levels. I think many of us can understand becoming exhausted after sacrificing our happiness for others day in and day out. Some of us resort to healthier mechanisms for coping, while others are not so lucky to have those tools at our disposal. We are the ones who end up in hospitals and alley ways.
But I thought what a simple, one step toward a happier, more meaningful life. Do something to better yourself every single day - something that is not drugs or alcohol or self mutilation or a suicide attempt. And how hard would it be to HAVE that one thing that makes you most happy, but completely give it up? I applaud all of you for your perseverance. That will be a wonderful trait to pass on to your children
Re: pregnant mom's in recovery
My story:
I've been sober for 2.78 years >:D< (I have an app that counts the hours/days/months/years). My sober birthday is August 15th so almost 3 years!
DH will have 2 years in September and neither of us have relapsed since we chose the sober life for ourselves
It's the best thing we ever did: after I stopped drinking I finally graduated with my B.S. in MCD Biology. This year alone we got bought a house, got married, and got pregnant! DH also stepped up in his responsibility at work, which has allowed me not to need to work at all. All of these blessings would not have happened if either of us were drinking.
I thank my lucky stars every day! My dad committed suicide when I was 12 years old due to a combination of alcoholism and bi-polar disorder and it makes me feel good to know I will never put my child through what I went through.
Keep up the great work and congratulations! !
I've worked with lots of mothers suffering from addictions of all kinds, so I had sort of grown impatient and cold toward that lifestyle. But when I met this woman I realized that underneath the surface, which can be so easy to judge and misinterpret, is incredible strength through recovery - or even the will to try.
She told me something I'll never forget, to "do something for yourself everyday." Although I wasn't in the facility because of drugs, she and I could relate on other levels. I think many of us can understand becoming exhausted after sacrificing our happiness for others day in and day out. Some of us resort to healthier mechanisms for coping, while others are not so lucky to have those tools at our disposal. We are the ones who end up in hospitals and alley ways.
But I thought what a simple, one step toward a happier, more meaningful life. Do something to better yourself every single day - something that is not drugs or alcohol or self mutilation or a suicide attempt. And how hard would it be to HAVE that one thing that makes you most happy, but completely give it up? I applaud all of you for your perseverance. That will be a wonderful trait to pass on to your children