Wedding to attend at 13 weeks- will I be showing?

Re: Wedding to attend at 13 weeks- will I be showing?

• GoodSuri member

  June 2015

  I wpuld say it depends. I am 13 weeks now with twins and i havr a very small bump. I am still wearing my clothes just look bigger in rhem now. I would say dont get a dress amd until closer to the wedding.

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• katers79 member

  June 2015

  I had a tiny bump- it was really only noticeable to me.

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• DrD30 member

  June 2015

  I was bloated at 13 weeks not a real bump. Looking back at pictures it was pretty noticeable. I'd go for something pretty loose and comfy.

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• KCwalza146 member

  June 2015

  I was showing at 13 weeks for sure.

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• yani04 member

  June 2015

  I was showing at 10 weeks, but you could be different. I would wait until a couple of weeks before the wedding to decide what to wear.

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• lawmom747 member

  June 2015

  STM and I was showing at 13 weeks. Agree with PP to wait to get a dress until a little closer to the wedding.

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• sweetpotato123 member

  June 2015

  I moved to maternity jeans at 13 weeks. I had a lot of bloating, but no one could tell I was pregnant- the mat jeans were just a lot more comfy!

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• ksteeb611 member

  June 2015

  I was minimally showing with triplets at 14 wks.

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• etaylor87 member

  June 2015

  I wasn't showing but had gained some weight so go up a dress size or two and if you can find the right dress you won't need to announce yet!

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• Hanniez89 member

  June 2015

  I wasn't showing at that point yet!

  
  

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• rue:D member

  June 2015

  I was barely showing but I think it was only noticeable to me, not to anyone else. If you can wear something that's a little loose around the belly you probably will be able to get away with not announcing if you're not ready.

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• alexazen member

  June 2015

  I was definitely showing at 13 weeks with twins. But everyone is different. Empire waist dresses hid it until later, but a dress that fell flat on my abdomen showed it. Also, I know for me it was easier to announce earlier so people stopped speculating as to why I wasn't drinking alcohol.

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• blsav23 member

  June 2015

  I was not showing at 13 weeks. I didn't really look pregnant until 17 or 18 weeks. But, as PP said, you may have a tough time as to why you aren't drinking if you haven't announced.

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• kelseyjane2015 member

  June 2015

  I am 13 weeks with twins and it is very obvious that I am pregnant. Last weekend I had to go buy maternity clothes because my regular ones wont fit anymore. Its like it happened overnight!

  I would buy a dress that is very loose on you!

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