My daughter is just over 5 weeks old. I'm breastfeeding with a shield and pumping on occasion. She eats great with the shield and takes the bottle but I can't get her to latch without the shield. Does anyone have tips on transitioning her to eat w/o the shield? I'm thinking of going to see a lactation consultant soon to see if they can help. I started using the shield bc they thought her mount was a bit small and the shield would help her latch on.
Re: Using a shield to breastfeed
Best of luck!
Been there, done that! I definitely think a lactation consultant is helpful. But be sure it's someone who won't make you feel guilty for using it or try to get you to transition before it works for the two of you - a breast shield is a GREAT tool! I also found understanding the latch using YouTube videos to be helpful. I found it best to practice non-breast shield latching when my son wasn't super hungry and not really tired. It made a big difference in my mindset. I know it's hard, but try to relax. One session isn't life or death, so don't treat it like it is.
The bottom line, do what you can. I'm five months into it and while latching is no longer an issue (kid has a great latch, wow!), I haven't been able to make enough milk. So what? I do what I can and make sure he gets enough food to grow. And that's all you can do. Just remember not to make yourself crazy. It's so easy to do, and things feel intense, but things do get better.
The only thing that I feel will be hard is breastfeeding in public and trying to put the shield on under a cover.
It is recommended that you wean off a nipple shield as soon as you feel comfortable to do so, as they can negatively affect your supply. Some moms have had good luck when switching sides to take it away, others half way through a feeding, still others do cold turkey, and lots of women will wean them away a feeding arcade time, like not using it at the first morning feeding, for example.
Usually, you will have the most success when you try it at a low stress feeding or one where they are going to be sleepy and not as likely to fight you when taking it away.
Remember, that breastfeeding is a learned behavior and your basics for a correct latch. Positioning babies head as if they were drinking from a cup, wide open mouth, aiming your nipple towards the back roof of their mouth, and as much areola as possible in their mouth.
Best of luck!
Over the past few days I've had some success. At least several times a day she'll do a complete feeding w/o the shield. It usually works best when she's not starving and we're both calm and comfortable.
As for the La Leche League, I did look up the ladies that should be local but didn't reach out. Maybe that'll be something to put on the agenda for this week.