I went to the doctor's the day before my due date, and they started talking induction. I have been 70% effaced and 1 cm for several weeks. Baby is in position 0. I know that I have a few more days, but I am scared about getting induced due to horror stories about the pain and increased need for medical intervention. I have stayed active this entire pregnancy in effort to avoid induction and think my due date is pretty accurate based on LMP/ovulation.
I had a vision of being able to handle the pain and letting my body do what it was naturally designed to and induction does not seem consistent with this. I think it's my expectations which are upsetting me more than anything else. They did not give me a lot of information at the doctor, and I have another appointment in a few days. They did not offer a membrane sweep which is something they do at my practice. I was hoping they offered the induction because they think my chances of a vaginal delivery are good. My practice routinely induced patients that are a week or more overdue, which does bother me. I just don't want to end up with a painful induction and emergency c-section. I wish I could wait a few more days, but don't want to put the baby in increased risk.
Re: FTM facing induction..This is not how I pictured my birth!
I had a membrane sweep at 41 weeks and went into labor 8 hours later. Ask for what you want and don't let anyone pressure you into anything that makes you uncomfortable