worrying

Re: worrying

• kimey1 member

  June 2015

  Im so sorry for your loss.
  I just finished my first AF and Im certainly worried but all Im trying to think is that worrying wont help, so I'm just gonna stay positive.
  I hope you can do the same. After all, a happy mama makes a happy baby

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• bntfroggie member

  June 2015

  Ugh I worry all the time.  I worry that I wont be able to get pregnant, then I worry that all my worrying will be a self fufilling prophecy and I can't get pregnant, and then I worry that if I do get pregnant I will be too scared and worried to enjoy it.  I'm just a giant bag of nerves lately.  I think we all deserve a vacation!!
  

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• linnea625 member

  June 2015

  I'm like you @bntfroggie so much worry!!

  
  TTC since January 2015
  3/15/2015 BFP!
  4/15/2015 MMC 
  2/25/2016 BFP! Hoping for the best!

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• MayBeSomeDay16 member

  June 2015

  I am so ready for a vacation!

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• jdubs0891 member

  June 2015

  I've recently had a mc as well... It's the worst feeling in the world and I know I'll have the same worries when I finally get pregnant again. I'm a WORRY WART. But just stay positive and hope for the best. I hope everything goes well for you *hugs*

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• newfie69 member

  June 2015

  I'm a huge worrier too. I had a D&c 3 weeks ago. Waiting and worried for the test results to come back. I just want to be pregnant again.

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• spatter1 member

  June 2015

  @bntfroggie it's like you took the words right out of my mouth. I feel all those feelings. SO much worry. What if I can't get pregnant? What if I get pregnant and m/c again? What if I can't enjoy pregnancy because I am so worried? What if I can't get pregnant at all bc I'm so worried? It's just awful. I actually considered (and am still considering) seeing a therapist. I'm not sure how much it would help but I'm thinking it might be worth a try. 

  
  

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• MamaBish member

  June 2015

  spatter1 said:

  @bntfroggie it's like you took the words right out of my mouth. I feel all those feelings. SO much worry. What if I can't get pregnant? What if I get pregnant and m/c again? What if I can't enjoy pregnancy because I am so worried? What if I can't get pregnant at all bc I'm so worried? It's just awful. I actually considered (and am still considering) seeing a therapist. I'm not sure how much it would help but I'm thinking it might be worth a try. 

  I see a therapist and definitely suggest it! She has helped us grieve and look to the future. If we do get pg again, I will def continue seeing her because my anxiety will be through the roof! I've already accepted that I will not be able to fully enjoy a pregnancy ever again, might as well do everything I can to make it even a little bit easier to deal with.

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