Ladies. I do not know if this is my hormone level being through the roof or a mixture of stress or what have you, in any event I have my registry set up and everything. I picked out a Recaro Stroller , Recaro infant seat, etc. I did my research and I am happy with my decision, hence why it is on my registry. My MIL bought a crib and stoller for her and my FIL to keep at their home. They picked some stroller that is a 3 in 1 or whatever and they continually try to convince me to purchase the same. I just received ANOTHER text asking if she can bring me to Babies r us to convince me to get it. I DO NOT WANT IT. I have stated that, and said thank you for checking into it, etc. but we are happy with the stroller we have picked out. Yet I still get these texts. I believe it is because they want to purchase the stroller for us.
I do NOT want drama and this is really stressing me out. I am not a b*tch by nature and usually like to respond with sugar rather than vinegar if you know what I mean. I am just seeking opinions from you ladies maybe you have an easier way for me to respond where it does not hurt her feelings but also tells it again, straight up, I do not want that one.
Thanks in advance
Re: MIL and Stroller
Honestly I don't think he should have the choice to opt out. Like I said, they're *his* parents. If anything it is more his thing than yours for this reason. Ugh, good luck. I feel your pain. That would really annoy me too.
I would literally just say to him, "I am glad you think that this issue with the stroller is "my thing" but news flash, I did not make this baby by myself - the same baby that will be using said stroller. Also, these are not MY parents. So while you may think this is "my thing" this is actual "our thing" and the sooner you realize that parenting and all of the good and bad that come with it are a joint thing, the better off we will be."
I have no problem being a bitch to my in laws. I mean I always try to be nice first, but if being nice doesn't get the point across ill step it up a notch.
Then if she continues to bug you as PP mentioned, have DH handle it. Make him do it. I'd be bratty and just flat out say "next time my dad has an issue I'll be sure to tell you it's "your thing". Did you forget these are YOUR parents!?!"
What is her objection to your stroller, just out of curiosity? Is it a safety thing, or just that she likes the look of what she got? Is one much more expensive than the other?
My GIL can be pushy sometimes, and husband always tries to get me to make excuses for us not visiting, etc. I've mostly gotten him out of this habit, because I actually respect her to much to fib to her. I've told him "fine, I'll speak with her, but I'm not lying for you". He usually talks to her at that point and comes clean.
I agree with the PP stating just humor her and check the thing out. And have her check out the one you plan to buy, since strollers excite her so much. Maybe you will get the real reason out of her that she's being nuts over this one piece of baby equipment.
We returned a swing DH's stepmom bought us because we liked our choice better. Ours was much more expensive and I completely understand nor expected anyone to gift us it. Like you I had done the research and knew which one I wanted. You are the one that gets to use it daily, buy yourself what you want.
Edited for typo.
Just say no to old, unsafe gear. Just say no to hoarding in general.