Sex Drive...or rather, lack there of!

Calebsmom0318 · June 2015

Please tell I'm not the only one experiencing this! I have ZERO urge to be intimate with the fiancé. I'm chalking it up to my constant nausea but I feel so bad for him. My sex drive used to be like that of a 13 yr old boy and now it's just gone. I'm hoping once I get past this sickness all the time it will come back in full swing. I remember being turned on by everything with my son but that was 8 years ago and clearly my body is handling this differently this time around. :-&

Sovvy · June 2015

Yeah no, I don't think I've ever had sex in the first tri... At least not before 10 weeks.

laxdixdar · June 2015

I don't do it for the first trimester either. Just not worth the possibility of spotting and stressing lol. 0 urges and I'm happy with that :P

BethP321 · June 2015

Thank all the hormones (: second trimester 's worlds different, you'll feel loads better and the sex drive will come back. I have been feeling the same but I end up doing it anyway or SO gets all moody and mopey. Boys...

shinyspade · June 2015

I told my boyfriend yesterday he's never getting to have sex with me again... Not interested at all just now. I think he gets it though.

babybluu · June 2015

Yeah I feel so bad for dh because I didn't think he was expecting it to be like this. Heck, neither was I. But the thought of getting intimate just does not sounds good to me. I'm thinking it's from the m/s as well. And the fact I just feel disgusting. I'm hoping to make it up to him second trimester.

Heron422 · June 2015

Mines GONE. Not like I really had one to begin with, my DH was the initiator, but we haven't done the deed since conception. Poor guy. Then the dr told us we couldn't because I was spotting, so now I'm just using that excuse until dr tells us otherwise.

Calebsmom0318 · June 2015

babybluu said:
Yeah I feel so bad for dh because I didn't think he was expecting it to be like this. Heck, neither was I. But the thought of getting intimate just does not sounds good to me. I'm thinking it's from the m/s as well. And the fact I just feel disgusting. I'm hoping to make it up to him second trimester.

Exactly! Does not seem like a great idea to me at all. I feel bad for mine too. He definitely was caught off guard by it but like I tell him "be patient with me, I'm making a baby in here!!". Good thing is that most of his friends have children so apparently they have told him what to expect when it comes to that department.

Devine21422 · June 2015

I lost mine for a bit and this past few days it came back. Lucky guy didn't think it was ever going to come back

Paige6410 · June 2015

It's nonexistent at this point. DH made a comment about this dry spell the other day and I was all

tbellamy2009 · June 2015

The first few weeks I was like a 16 yr old hottie.. The last 2 weeks I haven't felt like it... My boyfriend went away for a week this afternoon so he warmed me into it... Glad I did cause it was fire works!!

Em208 · June 2015

Yeah none. We (he) was hoping that we'd try to conceive for a few months, but thankfully it was a one-shot deal so he's a little bummed. Theres a whole world of porn for him to explore so I don't wanna hear about it.

SDawson511 · June 2015

Also zero drive! I'm too scared so it's just not worth any risks!

brittany0103 · June 2015

Mine is pretty much gone. Every once in a while I will have one, but then it will be gone in the blink of an eye. My hubby hates it and complains everyday.

winnie1122 · June 2015

@Heron422 Ditto.

EmXa · June 2015

Mine is gone too, too sick and headachey to really get in the mood. However we still do it twice a week because I would feel bad not giving him any, and he is thoughtful by making it quick and not expecting anything extra.

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