I personally have a top ten list myself. These are the things that have made pregnancy itself tolerable.
#10 - Shopping for everything. I love buying new things for the baby. And decorating a nursery. Star Wars theme for my little Padawan, Luke.
#9 - The "pregnancy brain" excuse. "Did I sign up for that? Yeah, I totally spaced. I'm so sorry." And I get away with it with a smile and a comment back, "You have a lot on your mind, sweetie." When truthfully, I 70% forgot about it and 30% of me didn't want to do whatever I signed up for...
#8 - My hair grows so fast! My hair takes centuries to grow out but with prenatal vitamins and pregnancy, it looks so nice!
#7 - The built-in dinner tray. Movie nights with my husband at night are always accompanied by popcorn. And the popcorn bowl is right on my tummy. A perfect placement. I don't have to reach uncomfortably anywhere because it's literally right in my face.
#6 - Leaving a restaurant with an actual pregnant belly and not just a "food baby." This has made my eating habits slightly heavier but hey, momma has cravings, sacrificed her body already and knows how to get the weight off when the pregnancy is over. I will eat my food without worrying about calories and carbs!
#5 - When your baby moves slightly away from your ribs for once so breathing is easier. It's the little things.
#4 - (TMI) That morning dump. Feels so good. Not going to lie. It feels damn good.
#3 - Going to the pool. Feeling weightless is pretty much the best. Not a fan of getting out of the pool where I can feel that weightlessness leave instantly. But floating in water is very nice indeed. Not to mention, my boobs look great in a swimsuit. The rest of my body has much to be desired but let's focus on the positives!
#2 - Nesting. Not only is my house super clean but it's also more organized than it has ever been before. All thanks to nesting.
#1 - Fetal Movements. The kicks that just let you know that there is an end to the thing that is ruining your body.
Has anyone else made a list of the positives? Trust me, for every positive I have two negatives but this list helps me realize that I won't be pregnant forever and I can have a little bit of enjoyment while I still am. I want to hear your lists if you got them! Too much negative on here lately.
Um... I really don't have a list of positives, aside from the fact that I am growing a person, and that blows my mind. Although I never had morning sickness, and I am very glad my house is super clean and organized, I have not had the luxury of eating whatever I want. I can't wait to deliver and eat a plate of pasta, or a slice of pizza, or a cupcake, or a ham and cheese sandwich, or a muffin... the list goes on and on. My husband jokes that I am going to be a rare case that gains weight after I deliver. But, super psyched for you that you have such a positive spin on things!! I wouldn't say it is negative for me, but this diet is a killer.
I love this! I have been blessed with a smooth pregnancy. Really- it's unreal. I actually feel better than I did not pregnant sometimes (my hormones were never on track). I get the pregnancy glow compliment a lot, that to me is a positive because I am glowing inside. Very excited to become a mom soon! I told myself for years it wouldn't happen, so that I wouldn't get my hopes up. Positive vibes are the best!!! :-)
My house is company ready at all times......I love it!
My husband and daughter talking to my belly melts my heart.
Baby kicks are the best.
Shopping for 0-3 month summer clothes is so much fun. I didn't get to do tiny baby summer shopping with my first (October baby)
Not stressed over all the details. Unlike my first where everything had to be JUST SO AND READY 8 DAYS AGO. I'm so much more go with the flow this time. And it's making me enjoy things so much more and stop to enjoy more about being pregnant. Cribs not even up yet, but it's all good, baby will survive. .
Also. Expectant mother parking spots are everywhere and I use them with pride. 7.5 years ago when I was pregnant with DD they weren't around like this. I'll miss them in a few months. .
Although I haven't kept an ongoing list of 'positives' I can think of a few good things
1. Shopping! Since finding out I'm having a girl, I've had fun splurging once a month on something darling for our little lady. Consignment has actually proven to be my new best friend and I've found tons of adorable things at a great price!
2. Eating. Whatever. I. Want.
3. Getting compliments! Although I feel like a small beached whale, people saying I look great or DH telling me he loves my body has been a godsend for my deteriorating self-confidence.
4. Being awoken by LO's kicks (although sometimes I'm like c'monnn), I love that I can just lay there in the silence and darkness of night and it's just me and her together.
5. Nesting...been a blessing in disguise! The house is now always clean and DH has gotten his butt in gear to finish projects. We went on a shopping spree at IKEA and Home Depot and it's been fun making our house a home for our new little family.
6. God's endless blessings! My DH and I have a photography and styling business that we launched last summer after I quit my FT job and in the beginning it was a little scary, especially after learning I was pregnant. Since then, it seems like everything has started to fall into place for our lives. I was let go from a PT nanny job I had after the family moved but DH found a FT job editing and because of that, I'm able to be a SAHM once baby is here! Yipee.
I'm so thankful to have had a very easy pregnancy and hope the last few weeks fly by cause we're ready to meet her!
I LOVE pulling the pregnancy card haha my husband rubbing my feet and massaging me and cleaning up the house our little girl living inside me is amazing! It kind of reminds me of a water bed haha that's what it looks like anyways. And my favorite is when my husband and I hold each other and just feel her moving around
1. Feeling my baby move! Blows my mind 2. When my husband kisses my belly and talks to our baby 3. Having an excuse to go to bed whenever I want! 4. Eating all the carbs all the time
The little thing that makes my day every time is when someone lets me cut in line in the bathroom. It's happened a few times now and I'm just like, "you're the sweetest person ever!!"
Best moments: 1. Feeling her kicks and movements 2. Seeing my mom get so excited about this baby. My dad is more laid back, but he's super excited too LOL 3. The baby showers! So amazed at how my family, friends, and students have showered my baby with love. It's downright touching! 4. This isn't much of a moment, but I gotta say I'm pretty darn happy I haven't had a period since September!! 5. The attention/concern people give 6. Ultrasounds- getting to see the amazing miracle that God has given to me!
1. thinking of holding a napping new born helps soothe my racing thoughts, before pregnancy I had a very hard time getting over a bout of anxiety.
2. compliments, never knew how much a pregnant woman appreciated compliments until I was pregnant. I will always compliment a pregnant woman, from now on!!
3. popsicles
4. no periods!
5. I have to copy the OP with her #6- I was just commenting on this with my husband after overindulging in a dinner last night: No food babies! AND when you over indulge your pants are already stretchy and comfy.
1. My little boy's movements are so precious to me. After this many weeks, I still giggle a little. 2. How DH is just as thrilled and excited about everything just like me. He talks to and kisses my belly multiple times a day, treats me like a queen even more so now (he's always had), is the chef and has been more creative with dishes AND desserts! I'm amazed! 3. The compliments: I've been told that I'm one of the happiest pregnant women, I don't even look pregnant when I'm sitting (and that was just last weekend), I've got the glow. 4. Nesting: we've gotten so much done to our house and have kicked it into high gear since finding out we're pregnant. NOW, we are definitely company-ready. 5. Pics- we just took maternity pics and pretty much all of them are keepers. My DH is even more thrilled because he usually doesn't like how professional pics turn out but we are soooo happy and natural in these.... Even the doggy ones came out great! 6. Health: Even though I was health conscious prior to becoming pregnant, I've had a bigger and better reason to now. 7. Coworkers are super supportive and don't let me do too much!
Well I cried reading through all these posts just thinking how amazing of an experience we are all having! Love this post!
1. Feeling the baby kick, stretch or move in general. Some times it's a bit uncomfortable but still amazing and such a great reminders that she is in there!
2. Nesting: We moved into our house a year and a half ago with a laundry list of projects to get the house where we wanted it to be and finally, thanks to pregnancy, we have been completely all those projects and the house looks fantastic! All it needs is the LO to complete it!
3. Compliments: Both from strangers and my DH. It's amazing how much you appreciate hearing that you look great or have that pregnancy glow, especially when you feel huge and uncomfortable. DH has been the best, always telling me how great my body is responding to pregnancy.
4. Foot Rubs: I hated getting my feet touched before pregnancy, I was so ticklish I would usually kick whoever touch them. But now I could lay getting my feet rubbed for hours. Which DH usually does on a nightly basis, not for hours but at least for a good 15-30 minutes!
I am sure there are tons more, I feel like the positives out way the negatives only because I keep trying to focus on the outcome. I am a FTM and can't wait to meet our daughter!
Happy Monday to all you beautiful moms to be! Keep the positive vibes flowing to get us through these last few weeks!
Re: Best Pregnancy Moments
My husband and daughter talking to my belly melts my heart.
Baby kicks are the best.
Shopping for 0-3 month summer clothes is so much fun. I didn't get to do tiny baby summer shopping with my first (October baby)
Not stressed over all the details. Unlike my first where everything had to be JUST SO AND READY 8 DAYS AGO. I'm so much more go with the flow this time. And it's making me enjoy things so much more and stop to enjoy more about being pregnant. Cribs not even up yet, but it's all good, baby will survive. .
Also. Expectant mother parking spots are everywhere and I use them with pride. 7.5 years ago when I was pregnant with DD they weren't around like this. I'll miss them in a few months. .
2. When my husband kisses my belly and talks to our baby
3. Having an excuse to go to bed whenever I want!
4. Eating all the carbs all the time
I love my little guy's kicks in the mornings right after I wake up. It's like he's saying good morning mama I'm up too!!!
1. Feeling her kicks and movements
2. Seeing my mom get so excited about this baby. My dad is more laid back, but he's super excited too LOL
3. The baby showers! So amazed at how my family, friends, and students have showered my baby with love. It's downright touching!
4. This isn't much of a moment, but I gotta say I'm pretty darn happy I haven't had a period since September!!
5. The attention/concern people give
6. Ultrasounds- getting to see the amazing miracle that God has given to me!
thank you for this! a much needed post.
1. thinking of holding a napping new born helps soothe my racing thoughts, before pregnancy I had a very hard time getting over a bout of anxiety.
2. compliments, never knew how much a pregnant woman appreciated compliments until I was pregnant. I will always compliment a pregnant woman, from now on!!
3. popsicles
4. no periods!
5. I have to copy the OP with her #6- I was just commenting on this with my husband after overindulging in a dinner last night: No food babies! AND when you over indulge your pants are already stretchy and comfy.
FTM...31+6 today
1. My little boy's movements are so precious to me. After this many weeks, I still giggle a little.
2. How DH is just as thrilled and excited about everything just like me. He talks to and kisses my belly multiple times a day, treats me like a queen even more so now (he's always had), is the chef and has been more creative with dishes AND desserts! I'm amazed!
3. The compliments: I've been told that I'm one of the happiest pregnant women, I don't even look pregnant when I'm sitting (and that was just last weekend), I've got the glow.
4. Nesting: we've gotten so much done to our house and have kicked it into high gear since finding out we're pregnant. NOW, we are definitely company-ready.
5. Pics- we just took maternity pics and pretty much all of them are keepers. My DH is even more thrilled because he usually doesn't like how professional pics turn out but we are soooo happy and natural in these.... Even the doggy ones came out great!
6. Health: Even though I was health conscious prior to becoming pregnant, I've had a bigger and better reason to now.
7. Coworkers are super supportive and don't let me do too much!
I'm sure there are more ... But I gotta go pee!
DS1 7/24/15
DS2 5/7/17