Have any of you mothers of more than 1 had a baby shower for the others? I am at #3 and we have only had the typical first one. By the time #3 is was on her way we had sold most of the big stuff, but we have taken care of it, now it's the little things, MOSTLY diapers BUT the most important thing I want to do is invite friends and also have them donate to a Down Syndrome association. Any suggestions or do you think it's rude to create your own party!??