I asked my OB today when they determine the position the baby is in and how. She said at 36 weeks they'll do a cervical check and can feel for the baby's head at that point, and if I'm not dilated at all at that point, they would do an ultrasound to determine positioning. Is anyone planning to refuse cervical checks until they go into labor or closer to 40 weeks? Any STMs refuse cervical checks the first time, and if so, what were your reasons?
I'm not thrilled about the idea of a cervical check at that point unless it's absolutely necessary. I'm prone to spotting/bleeding after internal exams while pregnant and know that only causes me stress.
Thoughts?
Re: Cervical Checks Starting at 36 Weeks - Are They Necessary?
A good reason to refuse is if you don't want a membrane sweep without consent (I've had OBs and a midwife do that in previous pregnancies; all without even telling or asking me!!!).
So my last baby, baby #5, I never had a cervix check. Not before birth, not during labor. There are ways to check for dilation in labor, without penetration. My midwife DID ask to check and I told her no. She respected that and there wasn't a medical emergency which required her to need to check (or she would have told me she *needed* to check). It was extremely freeing and I felt in charge, rather than just a spectator.
After they do this you can feel a ton of pressure, bleed, have a ton of mucous discharge and begin to contract.
Thank you all for your insight! I will probably decline them until at least 40 weeks unless there's an actual valid reason for them. I would prefer things be left alone up there and progress naturally, and I don't need any spotting scares that late in pregnancy either!
I think if your dr knows what you want before hand and you are open with waiting they will too! Good luck!