everytime I get just the slightest stressed out, I go into contractions! Or she gets hiccups. I don't know why, the stress in my life is daily and has been for over 10 years now. It's just been more and more lately.. But simple things such as my kids fighting.. Kids fight.. It's really not a big deal.. But it ticks me off to no end and then I try to make them stop and they keep on which makes me mad, and then before j know it I'm having contractions and trying to separate them.. Then I'm screaming at them to cut the shit.. Then there crying cause I'm such a horrible person... And it's like well just stop the first 5 times I tell you to and I won't have to start yelling... Then I sit there and start crying because I'm such a horrible mother. But seriously.. Why must they punch each other and scream bloody murder and kick and ect.. Is this even normal for kids to do? I can scream and spank and take stuff from them, put them in time out.. Nothing. Works!
So anyways, now the baby is stressed, I'm in severe pain, and my children hate me because I yelled at them. I just don't even know what to do anymore...
Re: I can't handle it!!
I just talked myself into starting it again
But two sets of twins! Wow! Lol how many boys and how many girls? Yea I want a moment to myself.. And even tho my mom says stuff sometimes that hurts me (like earlier) I know I'm just being sensitive, and she def didn't mean to. She has been absolutely amazing! Anyways, I know she would take the girls to go do something so I can lay down, she's told me to a few different times.. But I feel worthless if I do.. Lol I'm my own worst enemy here. Plus I been on bed rest both pregnancies, and they say I will get pre eclampsia again this time so I want to be on my feet as much as possible.
And my mom says super judgmental things to me too. And I wanna yell at her too!
Hang in there, you are doing great. I use to say one day at a time. Now I just think, 'please let's just make it till the next nap/bedtime and I'll be ok'
Hugs to you!
It's just really getting hard on me I guess. Almost done.
My mom often tells stories of her hormones when she was pregnant, and when I was 4 (and she was pregnant with my brother) I also jumped into bed to snuggle, and she says I hit her stomach so hard that she practically threw me across the room and started crying....I honestly don't remember this AT ALL. I don't remember any of the times she yelled at me and my sister, or how hormonal she says she was. All I remember from that time period were the days she made me PB&J sandwiches, and let me try on her shoes. Haha. So don't you worry - you're doing a great job, mama!
You're not a monster, but try talking with them after you yell even if they're little. They love you the most and always will.
Anyways thank you all for your support and letting me know I'm not a monster.. Man I feel like one a lot! lol. My 4 year old is so cute, if she hears me say "I'm huge" or "I'm a whale" she crosses her arms and says "no your not! There's a baby in there!"