November 2015 Moms

Pain during sex

I'm fifteen weeks pregnant, and for some reason I've been having trouble trying to have sex. Sometimes I can't even get or stay wet. Then others, when my boyfriend penetrates me, it hurts my uterus. I wanna be able to please my man but I can't. Help please?

Re: Pain during sex

  • Lots of lube and try different positions. Sometime laying down on ur side with him behind you helps.
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  • veckiaveckia member
    I don't know what you are feeling, but I know that I've been feeling super sensitive "in there." I've noticed that it helps if my partner just takes things a little slower. Maybe I'm tense and anxious at first for whatever reason. After a couple minutes slow, gentle thrusting I usually am more relaxed and comfortable and I can tell him to go faster. I just need to keep communicating what hurts and what doesn't. Hope this helps!
  • I'm in the same boat, but lots of arousal beforehand helps with easing the penetration.

    My vagina feels different every day. Sometimes we try and I get frustrated/uncomfortable and need to stop. Other days it's hot sex for a lengthy time. We've definitely have had to tone it down, but overall, hubby respects my needs and always wants to put my comfort level first. Even if that means we only cuddle and kiss for the evening. Communication is key!
  • Are you using lube? Use lube.
  • I'm in the same boat. I can't get in the mood ever which is very frustrating to me because I miss sex with my husband. We use lube but it's still uncomfortable and painful at times. We've tried all sorts of positions and nothing is working. I'm so frustrated and wish we could figure it out. I always thought that I wouldn't lose my sex drive when I got pregnant but boy was I wrong. :(
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