I'm a FTM, but just FYI it would probably be helpful to the STM if you specified what kind of advice you're looking for! They have lots of wisdom to share but an open-ended question like this actually can make it hard to respond.
concerns....n i didnt say stms cause not all moms are on their second child
I felt it was implied since you said you wanted "mammas" to give advice to FTMs... again, specificity is really appreciated on here. If you're just looking for advice in general, you could open literally any of the threads and get that.
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