Plus size mom check in!

beanie1977 · May 2015

The first day I logged into this board there was a post about being plus sized. I was so glad, because my weight has always been a concern for me, though my doctor doesn't seem too worried. I started out at 227. I'm 16 w 6 d.

How's your pregnancy going?

Are you looking "pregnant?" (Round belly) I'm not quite yet. Just have a bigger B shape. I just look fatter

Aches and pains? I'm feeling like my lower abdomen is huge and its throwing me off. Already waddling. My back went out but is better now after seeing my Chiro.

Working out? I'm trying to go at least twice a week but want to up it to 4. My MS took such a toll on me I was out of the routine for two months.

Weight gain? Even with my MS loss, I've gained 11 lbs as of today. I'm afraid of what will come!!

Clothes? I've got lots of good deals on oldnavy.com. But I'm already an XXL and need the maternity now as nothing fits so don't know what I'll do down the line!

Anyway, today I'm overthinking things. I'm so uncomfortable and not even half way through. I'm scared about what will come!!!

If I have another baby, I'd like to lose at least 40-50 lbs below my PP weight first!

Thentherewere7 · May 2015

Hey:)!!! Checking in! I'm 5'9" started at 239 and currently 225. I look pregnant but it does have a bit of a b shape. Oh well! Full panel Maternity jeans make it look more like a baby bump.

I am not working out as i am so exhausted all the time. And my back is constantly hurting as well as my hips.

I'm in maternity jeans but not tops though I could use a few.

jlculpeps · May 2015

Hi! I am 20w 1d with twins! I started 246 and am currently 233. I can tell I look pregnant, but it is not obvious to others. I still haven't worn maternity clothes yet! I'm ready to look pregnant and not just chubbier. No concern with my weight by doctor so far, everything looks good!

Kara7787 · May 2015

I'm 20w today, FTM. I started my pregnancy around 235 and am now 227. Doctor's have not said a word about my weight, which I love. I'm barely showing. I have a bump, and people who know me well can see it but to most people I just look chubby. I have been wearing maternity pants because it feels better on my belly and rounds it out nicely.

jenn2132 · May 2015

Hi there! 21w 1d here started off at 217 now 220. No morning sickness for me and is say I'm looking more pregnant every day although I feel huge already and some people still can't tell so I'm sure they think I look fat. Belly is mostly round but not completely maternity pants do help. Haven't had to buy maternity shirts yet but I know it's only a matter of time. I hate to admit aside from walking I haven't been exercising eek! My weight gain has even good this far but I'm worried it's going to stack on at the end

rnielsen321 · May 2015

Hey there! 5'6" and about 244 lbs at time of embryo transfer. I have gained about 50 lbs along the IVF journey of 2 1/2 years to get to here. 19 weeks today, and am at 6 lbs gained while pregnant. My OB is super happy with my progress.

I am showing. I have a belly. My butt is smaller. And it seems everything is just moving around to the front. No real aches and pains. Feeling pretty good over all... knock wood.

I have been in Maternity pants/belly bands since week 10. Motherhood is the only Plus Maternity clothes I have found in Canada... I have a few tops from WalMart, one from Old Navy. I am still in tanks, and cardigans from Old navy (they are long enough). I have some empire waist dresses from last year that may make it for a while... I have found looking for certain cuts one size up at Winners (TJMaxx like store) is the best. I find the clothing so frustrating! I want some CHOICE! May end up popping over the border (to Niagara Falls) I want to look cute! And want to be adorably pregnant! I want some fashion choices...

I do find that folks question my food choices ... especially in the office. I know most people get judged, I am just feeling a wee bit more judged than usual...

How is everyone else doing?

lucky10liz · May 2015

FTM 18 weeks 1 day. I haven't gained any weight yet. I lost enough during my 1st trimester and any weight I have gained hasn't put me above my PP weight.

I've been in maternity clothes since about week 12. I unfortunately have the B belly. Maternity pants help some, but to me it's obvious. I just look fat.

I really like Old Navy and Motherhood Maternity for clothes.

My belly has been hurting, definitely getting the round ligament pains, I think it different if you already have a belly because I've had these pains since the beginning. And my back is killing me!! I really want to lose some weight before the next baby... hopefully it will cut down on that.

I've been taking yoga classes 2x a week, but they aren't prenatal yoga so some of the stuff I have to skip or modify so I can do it. I really want to incorporate some more exercise like walking now that it is finally warm outside. <:-P

kiggitykelley · May 2015

I was 255 when I got pregnant, now i am at 261 and at 19 weeks....but I have been fluctuating from 261 to 267. I am back at 261 now. I just look bigger and fatter. I really wish I was in better shape when i got pregnant but I am continuing on trying to get out and do more things active. I wish I had a cute bump but I guess that will come with time. Keep up the good work ladies. Us plus sized girls need to stick together
:x >:D<

sbeltre · May 2015

I'm 20 weeks tomorrow. I'm 5 feet and pre pregnancy weight was 190 I'm now 196. I think it's odd I'm not gaining a ton of weight.

The top part of my belly is hard and round. My husband said I look pregnant when I stand.

I don't exercise at all.. I walk about 5 miles at work everyday and my feet are throbbing by 5 pm

I haven't bought any maternity clothes.. I live in my yoga leggings

katanasai · May 2015

Third Time Mom here, 17 weeks and 1 day - started at 220, down to 208. My doctor is not pleased with me, and is sending me to a nutritionist.

I don't look pregnant to strangers, but my friends and (ex)coworkers have noticed!

Everything aches, but I think it's from my terrible mattress.

I'm not working out, too much exhaustion from not sleeping well.

I'm still not in maternity clothes, but at home I constantly wear pj pants, and when I'm out I wear my largest jeans! I've always worn very loose, comfy shirts, so no problems there yet.

Today has been an okay day, everyone in my household is at work or school, so lots of extra nap time! Anyone else feel the need for lots of extra naps?

Celly2015 · May 2015

I am 19 weeks and 6 days. I started out at 276 and am now 272. I know my weight is crazy, but I think I hold it well. I am only I am bouncing between 272 and 273. my doctor says it is normal to loose 15lbs, as long as I am not trying to do it on purpose. when I have the energy, I walk or find some activity to do with my 3 year old (he keeps me pretty busy). my stomach does look very round.

clothes are a nightmare!!!

im so glad I found this forum because my own husband has no idea how much I weigh...

8-|

keep this forum strong! good luck ladies!

mrsdawnjoy · May 2015

I'm 20w6d. I started at 195 and am now at 207....4 of those pounds have been in the last 3 weeks!

I do look pregnant now, depending on what I wear. Dresses and empire waist tops help. There is a very slight indent where my belly button is, which drives me nuts. Over-belly panties or pants help round me out though.

jenn2132 · May 2015

I think we should post pictures of our bumps! We are all experiencing the same concerns and body insecurities but our bodies are beautiful too ( not saying anyone said they weren't) so let's see them! We are among friends! Ok I guess I'll start...

Rikdoll · May 2015

I'm 5'3 started my pregnancy at 207 I'm down to 199. Here's my latest baby bump pic at 20 weeks.

margies2010 · May 2015

I started off at 286 and am currently 272. I was being scolded by my doctor for losing weight, and he was pleased to see I went up two pounds since my visit four weeks ago. I look pregnant, just *much* further along than I am. I am not able to exercise due to severe back pain and exhaustion.. I would post a belly pic, but my phone won't let me do attachments.

Edit: I am 20w5d.

jenn2132 · May 2015

Rikdoll said:
I'm 5'3 started my pregnancy at 207 I'm down to 199. Here's my latest baby bump pic at 20 weeks.

Looking good!

Christinekuester · May 2015

Yay! Im so glad to see this. Ive lost 12 lbs but gained one this months appt. I cant wait to get to learn more about all of you !

nimmunogirl · May 2015

So glad I saw this post! I am 19w6d and I have gained 2-4lbs. I started at 195. My doctor would like me to gain 10 lbs or less and thinks I am right on track. I am really looking forward to losing weight after the baby is born. I definitely look pregnant, to people I know and strangers alike. I have back pain and low belly pain. I went to buy a belly band today, but they didn't have my size. I have been wearing maternity clothing and I love it. Here is me 10 days ago - belly is bigger now

Rikdoll · May 2015

jenn2132 said:

Rikdoll said:
I'm 5'3 started my pregnancy at 207 I'm down to 199. Here's my latest baby bump pic at 20 weeks.
Looking good!

Thank you!

Celly2015 · May 2015

margies2010 said:
I started off at 286 and am currently 272. I was being scolded by my doctor for losing weight, and he was pleased to see I went up two pounds since my visit four weeks ago. I look pregnant, just *much* further along than I am. I am not able to exercise due to severe back pain and exhaustion.. I would post a belly pic, but my phone won't let me do attachments.

Edit: I am 20w5d.

Amen to the back pain! and exhaustion! I feel like I cant get enough sleep! and my back doesn't help! just stay strong!
;;)

FrozenMommy · May 2015

I am 5'1, started at 250, went down to 235, fluctuate daily between 238-240 now at 17 weeks. With my first, I only gained 14 lbs, which I had lost first, with my second, I gained 65 lbs, and it stretched me out and popped me in places, and I have never gotten back to normal. I am the same weight I started with my first pregnancy, but I look 40 lbs heavier because of my skin stretching out. My entire stomach and lower abdomen hurt, all the time. I have an umbilical hernia mesh, and I just hope to gain no more than 10 lbs and pray that the mesh holds. My stomach is a scary place right now!

gatorgrad2007 · May 2015

I'm a FTM and currently 19w2d pregnant. My first visit at 5 weeks I weighed in at 214lbs and at my last visit at 17w1d I was 224lbs. I was told I should only gain 15-20lbs, don't think I'm going to be within that range!!!! I live in Florida and we're already having 90+ degree weather days. I've been having some major swelling, by the end of the work day i have major cankles. When I brought it up to my doctor he said it was normal but of course my visit was in the morning and my ankles weren't swollen. Even prior to pregnancy I retained a lot of water though. I've been experiencing some lower back pain off and own. Big belly, big, breast, and all this weight is taking a toll on my 5"1 frame I've been thinking about increasing my prenatal massages to biweekly instead of monthly. I realize those are only minor complaints to what others may be experiencing. I try my best not to complain. So far I've been blessed with a healthy baby boy and I'm just enjoying the ride!

saveinsincity · May 2015

So far I think I've remained within the 230 lbs range. I honestly have not asked how my weight gain is going. Ideally I would have wanted to be under 180lbs for 2nd child; but that didn't happen.
I don't feel like I look pregnant, just fat and huge at 20wks. Maxi skirts are my go to item for now. I have yet to surpass the tired and sleepy phase. I want a nap like every hour, no morning sickness but plenty of gag reflux still.
But baby is growing just fine, I have an ultrasound this week. Can't wait!

mak1020 · May 2015

Hi Everyone!!! I am a FTM @ 20 weeks 6 days. I was 214 when I had my first ob appt and now I am 217. I really don't know what my weight was before baby, I believe I was around 200 ish lol. But doctors are happy about my weight gain with being overweight and all before hand. Baby is doing great, measuring bigger than expected. As for looking pregnant, I am finally looking like it! I'm carrying low but you can def tell there's a bump now and not just bloat.
Motherhood has been a life saver. I've been wearing pants since week 12, and tops since week 15ish. I can still fit in some of my pre pregnancy clothes. I'm glad that everyone is doing great!!!!

RainNFyre · May 2015

I love this thread. I'm up 4 pounds. 20 weeks today. Just wondering, are any of you feeling movement yet? I'm not. :-S My doctor doesn't think it's a big deal - told me it's not unusual in plus-sized moms to not feel movement at this point. But still. I want to feel her in there!

jlculpeps · May 2015

I'm 20w 3d and just really started feeling movement in the past week or so! Nothing intense and I have to really be paying attention, but it is there!

on_the_move · May 2015

I'm 20 weeks today and started at about 275. I lost 15 lbs in the beginning and have only gained about 5 of it back so far. I feel like I do look a bit pregnant, depending on what I wear. Mostly I have been wearing maternity clothes since I feel like they define the bump better. I really should try exercising more, but I have mostly felt exhausted even past the first trimester this time.

babycamara1106 · May 2015

I started at 268 lost 10lbs and have stayed at 258 the rest of the time. I am almost 18 weeks now. My doctor said they don't want me to gain anymore than 15 lbs. so far so good

gerbies · May 2015

I am 20 weeks, 6 days...I started at 255 lbs at 5'7" and have gained 6 lbs as of today (though it fluctuates down based on my day). I have exercised sporadically. I need to get better about it. I worked out a lot before pregnancy. I am nervous about preterm labor but some toning and walking/low impact aerobics should be fine.

I am wearing mostly maternity clothes, except for knit pants, open cardigans, etc. I also bought some stuff in one size up at TJ Maxx. I am having a very hard time finding plus size dress clothes for work. I have checked everywhere and either they are ugly or super expensive.

I have definitely been tired (which could be the lack of exercise and going out to eat). I have felt some movement...like the baby is scratching me from the inside..,so crazy!

sbeltre · May 2015

My first bump picture. I'm starting to look pregnant and not just fat. This was be first time I've been comfortable enough to take a pictures!

20 weeks down, 20 more to go!

margies2010 · May 2015

I feel the struggle on plus size maternity clothes! We have a strict dress code at work that I have to maintain (gray bottoms, periwinkle blue/white tops) and I am having the worst time. I have had to ask the bosses to work with me some because I can no longer wear my uniform tops.

cbutler0045 · May 2015

I love this thread.. I have been feeling a little down about my bump when comparing to other tiny ladies.I mainly just feel large most of the time. I had put on almost twenty pounds before I even got pregnant this winter.. I'm definitely on the verge of being on the plus size side and have put on a lot more weight being pregnant than you ladies. I am 5'2" and weighed about 175 before I got pregnant and was 190 at 17 weeks. My doctor doesn't seem to have an issue with my weight gain and my blood pressure and blood sugar have been in a good range. I have done weight watchers before and lost 50 pounds.. I am excited to try that again after the baby comes.

I am starting to feel like I have more of a bump now. Here's a picture I took of my bump a couple days ago at 19 weeks. :-)

jenn2132 · June 2015

Curious where everyone is with weight gain? Up until 20 weeks I had only gained three pounds but in the last 4 weeks according to my home scale I've gained 5 more pounds!!! Anyone else have a rapid gain month? I'm worried I'm going to get a finger wag from my doctor

MirandaC1984 · June 2015

I'm 5'3 and started my pregnancy at 178. I'll be 20 weeks on Thursday and have gained about 3 pounds. The doctor doesn't seem concerned. I'm definitely showing and love it.

rnielsen321 · June 2015

Was at the doctor's yesterday, and think I am up 3 lbs this month. She never mentioned a thing. I am at 8-10 lbs for the pregnancy. Started at 246 lbs on my 5'6" frame. My doctor was worried re: blood pressure, as it was high in her office. I saw a specialist at the hospital, who took measurements and said I was fine... probably just excited about being at the OBGYN. So far so good for me!!

On the clothing tip, I just got 2 pairs of 2X pants at Motherhood for $50!! They were on sale, and buy one get one half off... It's the lack of cute tops that's my issue.

sarapagan · June 2015

Hi ladies! Hope youre all doing great! I will be 21 weeks tomorrow, and have gained 1 pound. I was very sick at the beginning...no throwing up, but extremely nauseous and could barely eat anything. I started this pregnancy at 250, and am now 241. My doctor is not concerned, but told me to eat healthy and gain about 15-20 pounds maximum. I am 5'6, so definitely plus size, here. I was about 20 pounds lighter when I had my first baby. This pregnancy is SO different. I am definitely showing, but am also expanding in my hips, but my boobs seem smaller. Its so strange. I'm thrilled to finally be showing, and I love that I look unmistakably pregnant now, and not just bloated!

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