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Husband wouldn't have sex with me to induce labor. *rolls eyes

jowen0606jowen0606 member
in May 2015 Moms
As of Tuesday I was 70% effaced and baby is low, (about knuckle deep). Well, hubby knows this because he went to that doctor appointment and I have never seen him refuse sex until now. My doctor even recommended to us to have sex because the sperm does something to induce, and he can't get over that he would be hitting little Jackson. While I find that cute and fatherly, I'm a little frustrated and over being pregnant. I told him I understand why he feels uncomfortable and I won't force him, but I was still miserable and want it to be done with. His nervous laugh was so cute as I would whine to him, "I don't care what you have to do, I just want your sperm!" Hahaha! I am so tired of this stupid, red ball and walking around air conditioned stores trying to break water. I can't sleep (waking up every hour on the hour), being sick (cold or whatever this is for 2.5 weeks), and the cramping. I would be cool with it all if I could just know that it was some time frame away from an adorable baby in my arms. Just needed to vent, but for real, I'm sure we are all done with this.
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Re: Husband wouldn't have sex with me to induce labor. *rolls eyes

  • klaG101klaG101 member
    I get emotional when hubby denies me sex lol. Doesn't matter the reason why I just can't help but get upset. I've been totally blue balling him this pregnancy (not on purpose , just so not in the mood!) so now when I want sex to help bring on labor he is up for it (this is my second baby , with the first he was hesitant towards the end) best of luck getting labor started ❤️
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  • sakafasakafa member
    My husband is 100% freaked out about sex right now. He feels like he's gonna hurt the baby. I think it's ridiculous. But what ya gonna do. I mean I'm sure its a little irritating that last time we made love I interrupted to pee 3 times. Instead of getting frustrated I make a lot of appointments and visits and keep busy. The days are flying by, and I'm pretty tired at the end of the day.
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  • kremerj1kremerj1 member
    Mine is doing the same thing! He doesn't want to poke the baby's eyes out....
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  • blitzy23blitzy23 member
    I told mine that I'll be on pelvic rest after baby is born.. So get it now!!
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  • stargazer530stargazer530 member
    Lol. With my first my doc checked me and hubs went to all my appts so when the doc said she could feel the baby's hair, he freaked out. He wouldn't have sex with me, later told me heh felt I just wanted to for his sperm. Uh yeah, exactly! But I know he was really freaked out about hitting the baby's head. Men are so ridiculous.
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