A friend told me that when I start breastfeeding I can use coconut oil for sore nipples. Has anybody ever done this before? It's ok if baby gets it in their mouth?
To answer your second question about whether coconut oil is safe - use freaking google. I just did it for you. The answer is yes.
To answer your first question - yes, many many women have done it. Google also answers that.
I am actually more annoyed with your questions because I see your post history states that you, a) find people on here rude, and b) still prefer to use these boards when you know Google can be used. So to clarify how to use this board vs. Google:
Types of related questions that are good for this board: Does anyone have experience in coconut oil vs. lanolin? Have you found coconut oil to have advantages over other methods for sore nipples? Have you found coconut oil to be as effective as other products specifically meant for breast feeding?
If you are committed to using the boards to answer this, I would suggest using the search function and searching for "coconut" as this has been discussed many many times over the last 8 months. Good luck.
I didn't know you could use coconut oil. Thank you for posting this. I am a very, very busy FTM and I do not have the time to Google everything. And besides, being someone who Googles whenever I can, Google has conflicting answers and even my doctor and his nurses say to NOT Google everything. Doctors and other moms with experience are the people to ask but always ask the doctor and rely on his/her answer
OK I normally don't jump in on the " use Google " train.. But when you say you " don't have time " ... It literally is quicker to ask Google.. The answer pops up in 1 second. I'm not sure why Google is against you guys if it takes longer than finding the app.. Along the question / crossing your fingers and waiting for a reply.
Back to the question.. Never used it. I'd be willing to try in a pinch.
It isn't about a quick answer. You can get instant answers on Google for just about anything. This I know. However, I am not someone who relies on a single answer on a single website. If I would rely on Google to answer questions in regards to my health or that of my future child, I would spend hours looking for all the answers I could. But who wants to spend hours looking at multiple answers to health questions? I would rather ask the doctor and save myself the time finding quality answers. No one should ever rely on Google for health specific questions.
Coconut oil is toxic!!! It could kill you! Never use coconut oil! Your nipples will fall off!! I have it from very reliable sources which I will not bother to disclose here, but I'm commenting on an Internet message board so it MUST be true.
@Kresla you wouldnt trust google but you'd trust internet strangers? not to discount the experience and knowledge of my fellow posters but At least many of the google answers are from reputable resources (ie webmd, mayo healthy clinic)
@Mommaswizz Maybe if you read my responses fully I said "Doctors and other moms with experience are the people to ask but always ask the doctor and rely on his/her answer". Getting advice from other moms is fine. But ask the damn doctor before making decisions. I never heard of coconut oil and am excited to ask my doctor about it. If he says it's ok then I will consider it.
@Mommaswizz Maybe if you read my responses fully I said "Doctors and other moms with experience are the people to ask but always ask the doctor and rely on his/her answer". Getting advice from other moms is fine. But ask the damn doctor before making decisions. I never heard of coconut oil and am excited to ask my doctor about it. If he says it's ok then I will consider it.
Clearly the doctor is best but i dont know about you, I google search most the questions i go to the doctor with. I can usually feel confident enough in what i find to skip asking them all together. if there's not a clear consensus as there is in regards to the coconut oil issue then i'd go to my doc. to say that you'd need to go through so many google results to find the answer isn't necessarily true either. Quick scan of the results will tell you which are reputable sources and which arent. but yes, i'm in agreement with you, doc is definitely the best bet.
It was a question. Of course there is Google, but I was just asking on here. It didn't hurt, right? Like, I'm sorry if you got annoyed with a question? Yes I have stated people on here are rude. They are. I was raised with manners and to not treat people like that. Maybe we're just raised differently. Also, when I research I look at multiple sources. This being 1 source. Of course I would ask my doctor, my childs pedi, and other sources as such. This is just one of the steps. Getting others opinions. I didn't ask for sarcasm, nor did I need it. I'm 9 months pregnant just like you women, I would treat people with a little more respect, and maturity. It would have been just as easy for me to comment on here in response to yall using sarcasm, however I did not. Yall have a good day though
I have only asked a few questions on here due to people and how they respond. I am a person that would never respond to anyone's question in the way some women have on here. I find it odd how so many get annoyed with responses. This site is a group of women all in the same boat. Many may not have mommy friends to lean on or many may just want to ask the question to moms and FTMs for advice. I had brought up the use of Google due to many factors. First, it cannot be fully trusted. Second, sometimes having a place to ask baby related questions is easier as many other moms may have advice. And third, the first response really angered me and I wanted to back you up. I said to ask a doctor because that is what we all should do no matter what. Even if we know the answer based on hours of research because it is the smart thing to do.
I didn't mean to turn your question into a flaming session. I just couldn't stand the rudeness anymore to simple questions from women who like you said are all pregnant.
Hey all, my issue is not that this isn't a reasonable place to ask this question (I totally agree it's legit to ask about others' experience with a product, as long as you are also asking your doctor.) However, my issue is that coconut oil been discussed on the June board many times and so most people are not going to repeat themselves and you may not get what you are looking for. The search function is the best place to start, and you'll hopefully find a lot of advice from other posters there.
@hoodoll82 I am on here multiple times a day and to be honest, never saw coconut oil mentioned. I honestly think some stuff should be searched before asking, but for the most part let ladies ask questions and people can respond if they want. Honestly, I would not have been upset had I answered this question many times before. I probably would have ignored it knowing someone would answer it. However, having people ask questions that have already been answered brings up the issue to other moms, like me in this coconut oil situation, who may not be aware of it. I love coconut oil and am totally about organic products so I was thrilled it was brought up. I clicked on it to see responses and it was all anger and the classic "Google it" response.
I've heard coconut oil (unrefined virgin organic coconut oil)is great for lots of things. Skin, nipples, eating it, cradle cap, baby acne, baby lotion, eczema, and more. It's like a freaking miracle oil. I'd bet it's great for lube too, but honestly don't know that for sure. When you talk to your doc about the nipples, would you ask her the lube question? I'm curious to know. I did a quick google search and low and behold you can use it as lube! They say it's better than water based lube because it lasts longer, just don't use it if you are using a condom because it could cause the thing to break. It also reduces sperm motility so it can be used as part of your birth control plan! Holy moly it really is a miracle oil!!!
Hannah12100615 I totally get it. I looked to see what I could find and the search function on The Bump blows right now. I was able to find threads where posters talked about coconut oil being a godsend for stretch marks, itchiness, etc. but it was not super easy to find - kept directing me to other month's threads. Nothing specific to nipples but my guess is that the same applies? Apologies for any snarkiness and hope you find the specific info you need.
I've heard coconut oil (unrefined virgin organic coconut oil)is great for lots of things. Skin, nipples, eating it, cradle cap, baby acne, baby lotion, eczema, and more. It's like a freaking miracle oil. I'd bet it's great for lube too, but honestly don't know that for sure. When you talk to your doc about the nipples, would you ask her the lube question? I'm curious to know. I did a quick google search and low and behold you can use it as lube! They say it's better than water based lube because it lasts longer, just don't use it if you are using a condom because it could cause the thing to break. It also reduces sperm motility so it can be used as part of your birth control plan! Holy moly it really is a miracle oil!!!
I get this question a lot as I'm a women's sexual health educator. Coconut oil can be very useful, but...
Be very, very careful about using coconut oil as a lubricant. If there are any trace amounts of sugar in the oil (which is fairly common in the easy to find coconut oils out there in stores), it can lead to yeast infections and/or UTIs. Also, coconut oil may cause burning that water-based lubricants do not, if you have any vulvar or vaginal sensitivity. If you have vaginal sensitivity at all, I'd steer clear down below!
Keep the whipped cream, chocolate, coconut oil, syrup, etc on your upstairs-- not your downstairs!
Guys. It's coconut oil, it's food. Personally I'm not the kind of person who wrings my hands over stuff like this. I assume your friend has tried this and her baby is not dead...so not sure what to be afraid of. If you had asked should I rub wd-40 on my nipples I might suggest asking a doctor. But unless coconut oils shows up on that list of infant no-nos like honey I really wouldn't worry about it or any other freaking thing. Really stupid people have managed to not kill their babies. I have met women in the 3rd world who let their barefoot babies play in the dirt with trash everywhere and have zero access to doctors and not caused them serious harm. It will be fine. Maybe my approach to this pregnancy is too laid back, I'm sure some psycho will call CPS on me soon enough if it turns out to be the case.
As for the flaming you are getting, honestly declaring everyone to have not been raised with manners or that you are too busy to google sure don't win any favors. Nothing screams I'm a very polite person quite like declaring you have manners and someone else is a big rude meanie. It's time to learn you can't control what others post and if you find these responses deeply insulting you might consider other sources for questions and information. Eta: @Hannah12100615 thank you for never ever responding with sarcasm as you mentioned. I will I fact have an excellent day just as you sincerely suggested. I only wished my mother had raised me with these kind of manners too.
I asked two questions. I shouldn't have to explain that I'm going to ask his doctor. I don't care if the questions has been asked 4000 times. Again, if it were me, I would have ignored it. It's just a question on an app. And saying I'm raised right isn't rude. I do have manners. I have yet to be rude or sarcastic to any ladies on this thread despite the rude responses I'm still getting. I also shouldn't have to not use this app because how other ladies are. I don't like going to Walmart because it's just a mess there, but it still benefits me to go. I also didn't ask about babies from 3rd world countries as I am not in a 3rd world country.
This conversation is like a snowball rolling down a hill.
No you have just missed the point. You got answers. Several were that it's a basic enough question that you should consult a search engine. One was that you will get conflicting opinions and therefore it's hard for you to find decent info here. Mine is that it seems like overkill to need second opinions about food...because common sense should make it obvious. That is what you got, answers and opinions by non medical professionals which you obviously didn't like.
I was simply pointing out that you claim to not be sarcastic, and then immediately made a sarcastic comment in the next sentence. Or did you really sincerely wish that we all had a fantastic day because of your great manners? Maybe you really did intend such well wishing, but I doubt it based on the context of your post. This is an EXCELLENT example of sarcasm. Calling people rude is not good manners. If you don't understand the relationship between my point about hand wringing and the example I gave about babies being raised successfully impoverished conditions, I'd be happy to explain it on a PM if you'd like to message me...it seems obvious to me but maybe it's not.
ETA: you are welcome to use this app to post anything you want. But you don't get to dictate the terms of the responses you get.
I asked two questions. I shouldn't have to explain that I'm going to ask his doctor. I don't care if the questions has been asked 4000 times. Again, if it were me, I would have ignored it.
At what point is posting a question that can be answered via Google or a quick search of the group no longer worth it. If everyone were to ignore it as you said you would we would have annoyed people who are upset at being ignored instead of annoyed people upset they didn't get tell responses they wanted.
Common courtesy and respect go both ways, using the board as your personal google or posting repeat threads both clutter the board pushing more important posts off as well as guarantees the original poster will not get well thought out responses of the users who responded to it the first 5 or so times it was asked. At a certain point it becomes coucounter-productive to both the OP (not receiving as many or well thought out responses) as well as the other board members (frustrated with the redundant/aask Google posts). Most posters who do these seem only interested in asking (information, advice, do my research for me, etc.) and rarely give back in terms of support or help. After receiving answers to Google or search their question many of the posters then complain that people are mean and this is supposed to be a support group (it's not) but even if it was support runs two ways and if it doesn't you're just using others and shame on you.
DS1: 8/3/10, DD1: 8/17/13, DD2: 8/13/15
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I've got a lovely bunch of coconuts. Doodeeleedoo. Here they are a standing in a row. Bump bump bump. Big ones small ones. Some the size of your head. :-\" damn it now I'm hungry for an almond joy!
Re: Coconut oil
To answer your second question about whether coconut oil is safe - use freaking google. I just did it for you. The answer is yes.
To answer your first question - yes, many many women have done it. Google also answers that.
I am actually more annoyed with your questions because I see your post history states that you, a) find people on here rude, and b) still prefer to use these boards when you know Google can be used. So to clarify how to use this board vs. Google:Types of related questions that are good for this board: Does anyone have experience in coconut oil vs. lanolin? Have you found coconut oil to have advantages over other methods for sore nipples? Have you found coconut oil to be as effective as other products specifically meant for breast feeding?
Back to the question.. Never used it. I'd be willing to try in a pinch.
I have only asked a few questions on here due to people and how they respond. I am a person that would never respond to anyone's question in the way some women have on here. I find it odd how so many get annoyed with responses. This site is a group of women all in the same boat. Many may not have mommy friends to lean on or many may just want to ask the question to moms and FTMs for advice. I had brought up the use of Google due to many factors. First, it cannot be fully trusted. Second, sometimes having a place to ask baby related questions is easier as many other moms may have advice. And third, the first response really angered me and I wanted to back you up. I said to ask a doctor because that is what we all should do no matter what. Even if we know the answer based on hours of research because it is the smart thing to do.
I didn't mean to turn your question into a flaming session. I just couldn't stand the rudeness anymore to simple questions from women who like you said are all pregnant.
https://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-relationships/coconut-oil-lubricant
Be very, very careful about using coconut oil as a lubricant. If there are any trace amounts of sugar in the oil (which is fairly common in the easy to find coconut oils out there in stores), it can lead to yeast infections and/or UTIs. Also, coconut oil may cause burning that water-based lubricants do not, if you have any vulvar or vaginal sensitivity. If you have vaginal sensitivity at all, I'd steer clear down below!
Keep the whipped cream, chocolate, coconut oil, syrup, etc on your upstairs-- not your downstairs!
As for the flaming you are getting, honestly declaring everyone to have not been raised with manners or that you are too busy to google sure don't win any favors. Nothing screams I'm a very polite person quite like declaring you have manners and someone else is a big rude meanie. It's time to learn you can't control what others post and if you find these responses deeply insulting you might consider other sources for questions and information.
Eta:
@Hannah12100615 thank you for never ever responding with sarcasm as you mentioned. I will I fact have an excellent day just as you sincerely suggested. I only wished my mother had raised me with these kind of manners too.
This conversation is like a snowball rolling down a hill.
Yall ladies have a happy pregnancy and good luck.
I was simply pointing out that you claim to not be sarcastic, and then immediately made a sarcastic comment in the next sentence. Or did you really sincerely wish that we all had a fantastic day because of your great manners? Maybe you really did intend such well wishing, but I doubt it based on the context of your post. This is an EXCELLENT example of sarcasm. Calling people rude is not good manners. If you don't understand the relationship between my point about hand wringing and the example I gave about babies being raised successfully impoverished conditions, I'd be happy to explain it on a PM if you'd like to message me...it seems obvious to me but maybe it's not.
ETA: you are welcome to use this app to post anything you want. But you don't get to dictate the terms of the responses you get.
Common courtesy and respect go both ways, using the board as your personal google or posting repeat threads both clutter the board pushing more important posts off as well as guarantees the original poster will not get well thought out responses of the users who responded to it the first 5 or so times it was asked. At a certain point it becomes coucounter-productive to both the OP (not receiving as many or well thought out responses) as well as the other board members (frustrated with the redundant/aask Google posts). Most posters who do these seem only interested in asking (information, advice, do my research for me, etc.) and rarely give back in terms of support or help. After receiving answers to Google or search their question many of the posters then complain that people are mean and this is supposed to be a support group (it's not) but even if it was support runs two ways and if it doesn't you're just using others and shame on you.