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hard not to hate grandpa

nana215nana215 member
edited May 2015 in April 2015 Moms
my dad has been not speaking with me since my birthday 4.26 and he recently texted me talking about my unborn baby.saying hes a bastard and a retart im.not big.on hate but its hard not to i really wanted my kid and my dad have a relationship but at this point it doesnt seem to happen, hes not a logical man he really doesn't think straight and im hurt by what he said and it eats me alive that i know hes gunna die alone and miserable , but he put himself in situations like this, i just believe hate isnt the answer but to eliminate him from my life am i wrong for feeling this way ?
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Re: hard not to hate grandpa

  • MommaBre2007MommaBre2007 member
    Your life is full of drama isnt it
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  • Lida1182Lida1182 member
    Maybe your dad is just upset about you getting pregnant? I think you should maybe talk to a counselor and see if they can give you tips for your situation.
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  • CanadaMom17CanadaMom17 member
    Block his number, and never speak to him again.  Solved.
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  • nana215nana215 member
    MommaBre2007 said:

    Your life is full of drama isnt it

    it bothers you or something? you dont gotta read my shit if u feel my life has drama cause the way i see it that lil comment wasn't necessary
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  • nana215nana215 member
    i think he is mad im pregnant and i find it so stupid to be mad at that
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  • nana215nana215 member
    im blocking him from my life !!
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  • maelily15maelily15 member
    While I'm sorry that it seems like your dad is angry that you're pregnant, @MommaBre2007 doesn't deserve what you said. She's a very supportive member of this group and has been for a long time. She was just trying to help you understand that this site is divided by expected birth month, so you are posting to the wrong group. All of us have already given birth. If you are due in October, it would be best to post in October 2015. It's the best place to post because those women are at the same stage as you are. I wish you and your baby the best of luck.
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  • Lida1182Lida1182 member
    @nana215 - you sound young, but that's just a guess and I could be totally off. I remember how upset my dad was when my sister got pregnant at 18 and even though she is 35 now I still don't think he's over it. If he won't answer your calls maybe writing a letter will help. Blocking him from your life will never solve the problem, perhaps some counseling for both of you will. Also, when are you due? As pp said, we have all had our babies by now in this group. You may find better support in the group of the month you are due.
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  • MommaBre2007MommaBre2007 member
    Why are we sad? Why are you asking questions on a forum if you dont care about peoples opinions and also... Moms like to talk to each other also.
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  • Lida1182Lida1182 member
    @nana215 - I was trying to be nice and calm and talk you through what seems like a difficult situation in your life. Did it ever occur to you that I have used this app for the past 9 months and gotten to know most of these people on more of a personal level than you barging in here and calling us 'sad?!' I don't owe you an explanation for why I am using the correct board, perhaps you should find the correct one and tell them all about your problems!
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  • Lida1182Lida1182 member
    @MommaBre2007 - %-(
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  • Lida1182Lida1182 member
    @MommaBre2007 - hope ur on fb group cuz not sure how much more I can take of her
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  • MommaBre2007MommaBre2007 member
    Im not on the FB group. What is it called
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  • maelily15maelily15 member
    We come here for support from people we've gotten to know over the last 9 months. Just because you've given birth doesn't mean you stop needing support and advice. And we do take care of our kids. That's what this forum is all about- best ways to care for ourselves and our kids. Mine is sleeping right now and I'm using her nap time to support other moms with advice if I have any or just to read advice about issues that I myself am having.
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  • nana215nana215 member
    but i never asked for your input advice or support directly the best thing for u to do is mind your own cause i don't remember asking you specifically for advice isn't that why they have direct messaging here for ?
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  • maelily15maelily15 member
    She got banned quickly. It's posts like this one that has me remembering why I keep coming back to the board. I defended everybody because I love the mommies who are supportive and who are going through the same issues as my daughter and I. There's so much good advice here and even if I don't have anything to contribute to the conversation, it's nice hearing other people's experiences. Hopefully it'll help prepare me for a second child in the future.
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  • MommaBre2007MommaBre2007 member
    Well then
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  • RSupryRSupry member
    That was just uneccessary. Glad she got banned we don't need people like that on here. She seemed very young and immature I hope she matures before having her child.
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  • marms1987marms1987 member
    She sounds too young to be raising her own baby!
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  • MommaBre2007MommaBre2007 member
    Hopefully she has some help raising her LO
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  • Lida1182Lida1182 member
    Wow! I was genuinely trying to be nice in the beginning bcuz she sounded sooooo young, but geez! Glad she's gone and hope she seriously gets some help.
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  • Lida1182Lida1182 member
    @MommaBre2007 - WTE April 2015 moms
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