So many of us have been discussing breastfeeding woes, fussy babies, gassy babies... have you all looked to see if baby has a tied tongue or lip? I met with a lactation consultant yesterday and she pointed out that my son has a tied lip and his tongue is also tied though not severely. After researching this, I learned that these issues contribute to low milk supply (bc baby isn't able to feed effectively and communicate demand), painful feeding (baby compensates for poor latch by sucking harder, also cannot get nipple to roof of mouth so there's constant friction bc the nipple is dragged against the ridges right behind where the teeth would be), slow weight gain, increased gas, fussy baby because of difficulty being satisfied, trouble taking a pacifier, thrush, and recessed chin (looks like they have an overbite). Uncorrected, this can also cause speech and feeding issues later in life.
MIND BLOWN!!!
My son sucks so hard that I thought he was latching well, but after we got thrush at week 2 I started to question if his latch was good because the thrush symptoms were improving with treatment but I was still having pain when feeding. I was feeling so frustrated because my baby didn't seem satisfied and was crying in pain from hunger. My supply seemed to be inconsistent, some days seeming okay and other days like I had nothing to give him. He was getting gassy seemingly regardless of what I ate. He seems to be soothed from sucking but can't hold on to a pacifier well. He wasn't gaining weight as he should, barely on the growth charts. He has the pulled back chin, too! I'm going to have the pediatrician evaluate him for an official diagnosis and discuss correcting it. They can either snip it with scissors or scapel, or they laser it. It sounds like babies fuss for a few seconds but you feed them immediately and then they are alright. You have to stretch it for 2 weeks to keep it from healing back the way it was, which is uncomfortable for them, but it sounds like there are ways to help it not be so bad for them. I hate to think of my baby in pain, yet it seems every single struggle we've had could be contributed to this! If feeding could get better and he could be content, happy, and gaining weight and breastfeeding were more enjoyable, I would be thrilled!!!!!
Any mamas with experience?
Re: Tied tongue/lip
My daughter is also severely tongue tied and slight lip tied and she had no problem latching but it was painful for me and she wasn't getting enough milk. I am now exclusively pumping and bottle feeding her breastmilk. Hers is bad and a simple clip isn't all its going to take to correct, the dr said she runs a big risk of bleeding too much when it's clipped and it will need to be cautirized after being clipped. It will have to be done by an ENT or pedi dentist. Right now I'm fine with not having it clipped.
DD is 4 weeks old and was diagnosed with an upper lip tie when she was 2 days old. We just got it clipped a few days ago from an ENT, just with scissors. It took about 15 seconds. He gave her some sugar water to calm her down, clamped it and then snipped it. She cried for about 30 seconds after while the nurse held some gauze to it and then I latched her on and she fed for about 5 minutes and then fell asleep.
She had a stage 4 lip tie, which means that her upper lip was tied all the way to her palate and there was even a little gap in her gums where it attached. Her front baby teeth and adult teeth would have came in with a gap if we hadnt got it fixed.
For home care, we just have to lift up her lip to her nose 3 times in a row with every second feed for 10 days. She still has a few issues with her latch, her upper lip doesn't always like to flare but I can manually fix it now, my babies tend to have thin/tight upper lips so I think part of that is genetic and will hopefully correct itself as she gets bigger.
I am so glad we got it done. My 2 yo DS has an upper lip tie that wasn't caught as he wasn't breastfed, and his front 2 teeth have a gap. The ENT told us we can get it snipped at any time, and as long as we do it before his adult teeth come in, then it will lower the risk of them coming in with a gap as well. It will be more 'traumatic' for him but he won't remember it and, personally, I would rather have it done now where it's covered by our provincial healthcare (in Canada) then not correct it and have to pay for braces when he's a teen.
I've seen a LC a few times but never thought to ask and she never mentioned anything but we do have some latch issues and low supply. I had a breast reduction so I've always attributed b'fing issues to that.
My dad's tongue is like that. He still can't stick it out and he hates it. It's good you guys are taking care of it