I just finished "Expecting Better" by Emily Oster and "What to Expect When You're Expecting". Both were filled with pretty sound, practical advice. "What To Expect.." was more comprehensive but I'm not sure if it's anything you couldn't get through internet searches or "The Bump" website. "Expecting Better" went into more detail about certain supposed "fallacies" in OB/GYN medicine- good food for thought for the intellectual who likes to have hard evidence before making decisions.
As a FTM who tends to over-prepare by reading every book, magazine, or research study she can get her hands on, I was wondering if you resourceful ladies (and gentlemen if you are out there?) care to share any "must have" books or other resources about anything pregnancy or parenting related? I'd love to know what empowered or inspired you the most...
Oh my I have a big list but let me think off the top of my head as I'm in bed and all my books are downstairs.
-Pushed by Jennifer Block -Ina May's Guide to Childbirth by Ina May Gaskin (she has a couple other titles too) -The Thinking Woman's Guide to Better Birth (I think author is Henci Goer) -Penny Simkin has a couple books -Your Best Birth by Ricki Lake -Michel Odent has some but haven't read them
I'm sure there's more but these are books I tend to turn to that I can think of in my sleepy state. I'm not a fan of What to Expect. I'll check out Expecting Better. That sounds up my alley just from the title alone.
I have just finished "The best friends guide to pregnancy" it was quite informative and funny. It was much lighter than some of the other books I have read and gave an honest "friends" opinion and all the icky details
Whole-brain child. Great book on how to teach lessons versus just get through the day. Lots of science behind emotions, learning, and memory. Only halfway through but would definetly recommend. I've highlighted so many pages.
I've just started Whole Brain Child too @Knottie30725733 & am liking it so far.
I second Ina May Gaskin's Guide to Childbirth. Also The Birth Partner (pretty sure that's Penny Simkin) Mindful Birthing & I just started Birthing From Within, which comes highly recommended but so far seems a little too hippie dippy, even for me.
I second @kehags Mindful Birthing, I love that book.
Also one of my momma friends was raving about Baby Meets World: Suck, Smile, Touch, Toddle: A Journey Through Infancy. I haven't had a chance to pick it up yet but it's on my list!
I re-read a pregnancy book: You Having a Baby, by Roizen and Oz
Mostly I like to read parenting books birth is a great milestone but parenting lasts a lot longer! :-) I have read a lot, but these are the ones I keep on my Kindle, will refer back to, and have probably influenced my parenting - and compassion for other parents the most!
The 5 Love Languages of Children, by Chapman
The Attachment Parenting Book, by Sears
Attached at the Heart: 8 proven parenting principles for raising connected and compassionate children, by Nicholson
@verveine407 I love the original The Five Love Languages by Chapman!! I have loaned that book out countless times and always get it back quickly, because they couldn't put it down! I had no idea they had a children's version! Thank you!
@verveine407 I love the original The Five Love Languages by Chapman!! I have loaned that book out countless times and always get it back quickly, because they couldn't put it down! I had no idea they had a children's version! Thank you!
You can take the quiz online too! Sometimes kids express all five so quickly it can be difficult to narrow down their main love language. So check out the quiz online. There's one for adults too (but I figured mine out pretty quick lol! Quizzes are still fun).
The children's one is great! My DD1 is, of course, a little like me and a little like DH and a whole lot like herself. I love being able to love her on her own terms! I make sure to express my affection for her in all languages but wow it feels great when I see her light up because she really "gets" that I love spending time with her. :-)
Jenny McCarthy's book about pregnancy (the name escapes me) is a must read. Straight talk and absolutely hilarious!! My girlfriends have passed it around amongst ourselves.
The Mayo Clinic Guide to Pregnancy
Babywise
I have others on my Kindle, I'll check and edit this to add them later.
Husband Coached Child birth by Dr. Robert Bradley was a game changer for us. It's a little old school as he was doing most of his work in the 50's - 70's but we ended up taking the Bradley Method birth classes after reading the book and feel so much more prepared and informed about the birth process. His entire premise is a natural childbirth that brings the couple closer together as a culmination of their love.
Yes, it has store products as well as brands dealing with babies and pregnancy. It is broken down by different brands and their ratings. It does have suggestions for "best bang for your buck." I also used online ratings, but I found the book quite comparable to online ratings. A lot of my colleagues suggested the book to help compare different brands of a particular product. I think it's a good reference tool for first time moms who have no clue where to start with their registry.
If you plan on doing any baby sign language, I read and practiced the signs in "baby sign language basics" or another baby sign language book so i could start with her early. Signing really helped her communicate her needs and now, as a toddler, we have fewer of the typical "toddler meltdowns" because she can't communicate what she wants/needs.
Re: Must-have reading?
-Pushed by Jennifer Block
-Ina May's Guide to Childbirth by Ina May Gaskin (she has a couple other titles too)
-The Thinking Woman's Guide to Better Birth (I think author is Henci Goer)
-Penny Simkin has a couple books
-Your Best Birth by Ricki Lake
-Michel Odent has some but haven't read them
I'm sure there's more but these are books I tend to turn to that I can think of in my sleepy state. I'm not a fan of What to Expect. I'll check out Expecting Better. That sounds up my alley just from the title alone.
I second Ina May Gaskin's Guide to Childbirth. Also The Birth Partner (pretty sure that's Penny Simkin) Mindful Birthing & I just started Birthing From Within, which comes highly recommended but so far seems a little too hippie dippy, even for me.
I also love the Birth Without Fear blog.
Also one of my momma friends was raving about Baby Meets World: Suck, Smile, Touch, Toddle: A Journey Through Infancy. I haven't had a chance to pick it up yet but it's on my list!
Mostly I like to read parenting books birth is a great milestone but parenting lasts a lot longer! :-) I have read a lot, but these are the ones I keep on my Kindle, will refer back to, and have probably influenced my parenting - and compassion for other parents the most!
The 5 Love Languages of Children, by Chapman
The Attachment Parenting Book, by Sears
Attached at the Heart: 8 proven parenting principles for raising connected and compassionate children, by Nicholson
The Mayo Clinic Guide to Pregnancy
Babywise
I have others on my Kindle, I'll check and edit this to add them later.
It has awesome information on baby's developing brain. Happy reading!