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Am I wrong for this ?

nicoleh52nicoleh52 member
in October 2015 Moms
okay, so me & my child's father went to get some pizza & stopped by a gas station. As he went into the gas station 2 females were staring at him as they were pumping their gas, he comes back, pumps our gas & as they are pulling out the parking lot one of the females said something like they wanted his attention. My child's father turns around ( I get out & get back in ) & turns back smiling & laughing while looking at me. was I in the wrong for going off on him?
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Re: Am I wrong for this ?

  • morganabyrdmorganabyrd member
    Because he was friendly with two people across a gas station parking lot? Did he get back into the car with you and leave with you? I'm assuming yes, so yeah...I think that was a bit of an overreaction.
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  • JessicaProsperJessicaProsper member
    No as long as you didn't do it in front of the other women. Never let another woman know you angry at your man.
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  • smlowe9311smlowe9311 member
    Did you ask him what was said? I know it's hard not to assume sometimes but if you don't know what was said then yes I say it was an over reaction. I know I've done it before (more so this pregnancy with worse hormones for some reason than last) so don't feel judged. If you haven't yet talk with him and see what exactly happened.
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  • deanna1313deanna1313 member
    I'm kind of confused at what happened.
    Did they say something inappropriate to him?
    He just laughed while looking back at you?
    This all sounds pretty innocent to me. I wouldn't get mad at my husband for someone else flirting or being interested in him. Not his fault nor is it something he can control. What would you do in his shoes?
    But like I said, I am a little confused by the question and what exactly happened.
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  • jegoffinjegoffin member
    You just let a 5 second interaction with stranded ruin your day? Yes, total over reaction. Regardless of what what said, not worth it.
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  • amberrmariee20amberrmariee20 member
    As women, especially pregnant women, yes we may get jealous ! But in the end yous are having a baby together, yous love each other. They were total strangers. I could see maybe if they had a history ... But I just think maybe you over thought it !! Relax and enjoy the day (: !
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  • LiveNLove44LiveNLove44 member
    I can see being upset if he had gone over to talk with them and exchanged information, but it sounds like he responded in a totally normal, social way. If a stranger says I'm pretty in front of DH, I don't give them the middle finger just to prove to DH that I'm not interested in them. I might smile and walk away. It kind of sounds like your SO was just responding politely. I'm sorry it bothered you because I do know what that feeling is like, but that circumstance seems pretty innocent the way you described it.
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  • deanna1313deanna1313 member
    I reread it and he definitely didn't do anything wrong. Sorry it upset you though.
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  • cmsim95cmsim95 member
    Just because of how my hormones are right now, I totally understand. And I wouldn't say you were in the wrong but it wasn't right either. (I'm guilty of doing something similar) so yeah I'm kinda biased. I did feel bad afterwards and apologized.
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