Multiples

Help?

Cervix is 1.6 cm, doctor won't do cerclage because of twins, but is doing a FFN test and started progesterone. I feel defeated.....

Re: Help?

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  • Can you go on bed rest?!
  • I'm on pelvic rest, she wants me to keep working but on restrictions so I don't have DVT's and other issues
  • Get a second opinion asap! She is not being proactive at all! Is this a mfm specialist or perinatologist? I would see one immediately. I lost triplets due to incompetent cervix before. This time I was told that it's automatic hospital bedrest for me or sny mom whose cervix gets below 2.5 at my clinic. The average is 3.5. You are way below that.
  • MrsEzStarMrsEzStar member
    edited May 2015
    I know a lot of doctors don't believe in bedrest, but please put yourself on it at home at least. If something terrible happened at least you'll know in your heart you did everything you could! I was never put on bedrest with my current pregnancy, but I have been taking help taking care of my son (from my mil, which was really hard f or ne at first), and I pretty much don't leave the couch or bed. It's VERY hard. I had to give up a lot of control in my life and I hardly ever get out, but I know that I've done everything I can. I will be praying for you! For you and your babies. For peace (I know must be stressed!), and for making sure you are receiving the best care and that you'll be able to trust in your doctor(s).
  • LAO12LAO12 member
    edited May 2015
    At 20 weeks I dropped from 4cm to 2.3cm. I was on "pelvic rest" by the MFM but put myself on modified bed rest. Hubby and I discussed a plan. I went to work, sat all day at work ( except bathroom breaks every hour) then came home and laid in bed or on the couch. Stairs twice a day only. We told both our parents and jow my mom comes every week with food and cleans for me. My dad walks the dog. I also got a support belt (the cradle). At 22 weeks I was 2.6cm, 24 weeks 3.1cm, and 26 weeks 3.9cm. We have not stopped this bed rest because it is working for me. I am now 31 weeks, no pain and still working.
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    DH: 31 normal
    Me: 31 tubal disease
    Married 2011
    TTC 2012
    Clomid x 2 with OBGYN: BFN
    IF testing 2013: blocked left tube, low AMH
    March 2014: Ectopic rupture, emergency surgery and D&C.  Absent left tube and now closed right tube
    October 2014: IVF with ICSI #1 - BFP (17r/14icsi/12f - 2ET 10/27; 7 frosties; Nov7 beta #1= 806; Nov10 beta #2= 2738; TWINS!!!!!  EDD late June/early July 2015)



     
  • I am 25 weeks with twins and just measured 2cm and all they gave me was progesterone. I go back in on Wednesday for a follow-up. My Mil is a retired ob and said I should be in bed rest but my actual ob hasn't mentioned that yet. I feel slightly defeated too but let's follow our doctors' orders and keep those babies cooking for as long as possible!
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