My DD is 6 weeks old, and breastfeeding is finally getting less painful. However, it is still very frustrating at times. We finally figured out a good latch, but getting her on is not always easy. She flails her arms like crazy, and makes it near impossible to get my boob near her mouth. If I swaddle her to keep her arms down, she falls asleep eating even faster than normal. Also, she won't open her mouth wide enough, so I pretty much have to wait until she is crying and just shove my nipple in her mouth at the right moment. Once she's latched she will eat pretty well. She chugs when I letdown, but in between she seems to get frustrated. Sometimes she will thrash her head back and forth (ouch!) or bite me with her gums (even more ouch!).
Has anyone dealt with this? I want to teach her not to do these things, but how do you teach a baby? Should I unlatch her when she bites or thrashes? Any advice is appreciated!
Re: Boob Manners
As far as getting LO latched with crazy arms & hands, I read somewhere to keep their mouth on your breast while getting situated. I started doing this, and it helped greatly. Also I take his bottom hand (cradle hold) and have him grip my finger behind his ear.