Trying to Get Pregnant

Allow myself to introduce..Myself.

Apologies if this is long.
Hey ladies. Looking for a little bit of support on my TTC journey! I've done a little bit of lurking, although it's hard to get through tons of threads! I solemnly swear I'll continue, but I thought I'd introduce myself first! I have PCOS...All the classic symptoms other than being over weight. My DH and I have been TTC for a while now, with the help of Clomid and Metformin. My cycles are every other month, so my Clomid rounds are few and far between (at least it feels that way). Last AF was in December (out of town so no Clomid that month). AF was late in February, test in early March was negative. Then finally got my BFP at the end of March. I was 7w2d at my first sono (2d after my BFP). Um helloooo! I was shocked and obviously beyond ecstatic. I had been on a strict elimination diet, and I feel like I owe my pregnancy to this. I went to work at 9w4d, and had a gut feeling that something was wrong. I'm a cardiac critical care nurse, so we have a tech on our unit who does echocardiograms (sonograms of the heart) and I had her take a look (knowing she used to work in OB). Sure enough, we couldn't find a HB. The next day I was in my OBGYN office discussing options. We decided on a D&C (horrible experience) and had it that afternoon (April 16th). I lost a part of me I didn't even know existed that day. I have a 5 YO DS (conceived prior to any indication of PCOS), he is absolutely my heart, but the empty missing feeling I have now could never be filled. I don't know what I would do without the support of my DH, but being part of a group of ladies who have experienced this as well as others who are TTC would be amazing! Sooo that was really long. Woops. Mkthanks!

Re: Allow myself to introduce..Myself.

  • edited May 2015
    Hi! And welcome!

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    And I'm so sorry to hear about your loss! Pregnancy loss is just gut-wrenchingly sad. I know a lot of the ladies here, myself included, have been exactly where you have, and as devastating as it is, I think it helps to have a community who understands. Even if we're talking about something completely unrelated, it's comforting to know I have so many friends here who really "get" my journey. Are you temping? Are you familiar with FF & TCOYF?

    Glad you're lurking. Definitely read the guidelines, and definitely definitely read "If you could tell a newbie anything..."

    I hope this community is a good fit for you!
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  • Definitely read if you could tell a newbie anything...!! Thou shalt not post pee sticks, thou shalt not ask if pregnant, thou shalt not get butt hurt. And I already have entire conversations using gifs and quote mean girls regularly. Check, check, and check. We've been TTC for 2 years now. I have used ovia for a while now but just downloaded FF!
  • And no, not temping! I work night shifts and while I know it's possible and have read about shift work and temping, I work a weird schedule and thought it would be horribly inaccurate temping at 2 PM one day, 8 AM the next, 4 PM the next, 11 AM the next, etc.
  • KaaaaaatieRNKaaaaaatieRN member
    edited May 2015
  • First of all, I am so sorry for your loss. It's hard for others to understand the loss we have gone through if they haven't gone through it themselves. I also had a miscarriage and D&C a few months ago and it literally changed my view on what is most important in life. I am also a nurse and I work nights so I feel you there. I just started temping this month and my chart is all over the place because I wake up at different times every day too. I'm determined to figure something out though! Hope you find the support you are looking for here. Welcome :)
  • Thank you @Babylovecali ! Shout out to another nurse who feels the pain of a night shift! Haha. My MMC and D&C has changed everything about the way I view life, as I'm sure it does for most! Thanks for welcoming me! :D
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome aboard, though!
    Me: 28, DH: 28
    Diagnosed with PCOS: Summer 2007
    Married: July 2013
    Began TTC: June 2015

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/58d258

  • paigeedpaigeed member
    Welcome to the best board ever!

    I'm so sorry to hear about your difficult loss the last few months. I haven't been in your shoes, but can imagine it would be very painful on many levels.

    I hope you enjoy our sarcasm and community. Keep lurking and join in. I was always afraid to join in, but once I did I felt so much better. These women are strong, supportive, caring women! We just like support in return. :)
    Me (26) DH (28)
    Married 6.22.13
    Hoping for a Herd Linky
    4/15--TTC #1
    12/15--IF testing
    3/16--Dx Unexplained IF
    Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI + Progesterone cycle
    Cancelled due to cysts. Started 3 weeks of BCP.
    4/16--Cute Ute! Clomid+Ovidrel+IUI+Progesterone TI.
    Cancelled-no response
    5/16--Hemmorhagic cyst and other cyst discovered.
    No medicated cycle. MRI scheduled to rule out
    septate uterus.
    6/16--Septum discovered. Consultation for surgery.
    Surprise BFP 6/8/16--EDD 2/13/17
    Kole David--1.7.17--Tiny but Mighty, born at 34+5 after HELLP syndrome
    Chart Stalk Me

     
  • nlwz123nlwz123 member
    welcome!




    TTC #1 10/2014
    Low progesterone
    BFP 05/2015
    Baby boy born 01/2016
    Currently: NTNP





     
  • So sorry for your loss.  I just went through one in March so I know exactly how you feel.  Welcome aboard and good luck in your TTC journey!
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    Me: 25, DH: 28
    Married: July 2012
    DS: December 2013 
    TTC #2 since July 2014 
    M/C: March 2015 
    My Ovulation Chart
  • nicosh8nicosh8 member
    I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to The Bump!
    Me:27 DH:27
    Married: May 2013
    TTC#1 since Nov 2014
    MC June 2015
    MC January 2016
    Compound Hetero MTHFR Gene Mutation
  • Very sorry for your loss- welcome!  :-h



  • paigeed said:

    Welcome to the best board ever!

    I'm so sorry to hear about your difficult loss the last few months. I haven't been in your shoes, but can imagine it would be very painful on many levels.

    I hope you enjoy our sarcasm and community. Keep lurking and join in. I was always afraid to join in, but once I did I felt so much better. These women are strong, supportive, caring women! We just like support in return. :)

    Sarcasm is my native language ;)
    Thank you for your support, and I'm ready to dive in!
  • So sorry for your loss.  I just went through one in March so I know exactly how you feel.  Welcome aboard and good luck in your TTC journey!

    I'm so sorry for you loss, it's a pain that I never understood until it happened to me. Sometimes it's hard to remember that so many other women have walked in my exact same shoes. Thanks for welcoming me!
  • Thank you guys for TB welcomes! I was getting my lurk on (til 4 am, can you say addicted?!) and most of the, uh, hostility, stemmed from a genuine place of idiot bashing. Obvi you should know not to post an HPT on a TTC board.. And no one wants to see your dirty discharge underwear. Even though I won't always say the right thing, I'm always down to offer my opinion and give support! :x
  • edited May 2015
    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.  Welcome to our board and good luck on your TTC journey.  These ladies are really supportive so start posting, replying, and sharing.


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    Me: 32  DH: 35  Married 10/4/14

    TTC  #1 May 2015 BFP: July 21, 2015  Stillborn January 8, 2016

    TTC #2 April 2016 BFP: June 17, 2016

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  • kp008073 said:

    So sorry for your loss.  I just went through one in March so I know exactly how you feel.  Welcome aboard and good luck in your TTC journey!

    I'm so sorry for you loss, it's a pain that I never understood until it happened to me. Sometimes it's hard to remember that so many other women have walked in my exact same shoes. Thanks for welcoming me!
    Amazing how much you can love someone you never met and only "knew" for a short time.  It definitely is hard to remember a lot of other women have gone through it but I find it so helpful to know I wasn't alone.  Through talking about it with people, I was amazed to find out how many women I know that have experienced at least one, unfortunately. FX your stay here is short! 
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 

    BabyFetus Ticker




    Me: 25, DH: 28
    Married: July 2012
    DS: December 2013 
    TTC #2 since July 2014 
    M/C: March 2015 
    My Ovulation Chart
  • @KMKaiser07 You hit the nail on the head! Even if I only knew for 2 weeks, it was the happiest I've been in so long. "What if" keeps hanging around. Natural to feel that way, I'm sure, but still makes it so much harder. Thanks for all your kind words!
  • I think you will fit in nicely

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    Me: 27 | DH: 31
    TTC #1 | 12/2014
    IF diagnosis | 12/2015
    IVF #1 | FET 1/6/2017 | Transferring 2
    BFP | 1/11/17
    Ultrasound | 2/6/17 | TWINS!!
    EDD | 9/24/17 | TEAM BLUE!!

    Went off BCP/TTC #1 | 12/2014
    No period or ovulation after going off BCP --> Provera | 2/2015; 4/2015; 6/2015 | no ovulation and no period without Provera
    Cyclic Provera to mimic cycle | 7/2015; 8/2015; 9/2015 | no ovulation and no period without Provera
    HSG --> tubes clear & DH SA | 9/2015
    50 mg Clomid + TI | 10/2015 | no response
    100 mg Clomid + TI | 11/2015 | no response
    RE consult & unexplained IF diagnosis | 12/2015
    5 mg Femara + TI | 12/2015 | AF 1/19/16
    5 mg Femara +TI | 1/2016 | AF 2/17/16
    5 mg Femara + TI | 2/2016 | AF 3/19/16
    5 mg Femara + TI | 3/2016 |  AF 4/16/16
    5 mg Femara +TI | 4/2016 | AF 5/19/16
    HSG --> tubes still clear | 4/2016
    5 mg Femara + Ovidrel + IUI | 5/2016 | AF 6/21/16
    5 mg Femara + Ovidrel + IUI | 6/2016 | AF 7/21/16
    Looking into IVF Clinical Trials | Disqualified from IVF Trial 8/25/16
    Saving up for IVF
    Provera | AF 9/6/16
    5 mg Femara + TI | 9/2016
    IVF Consult | 11/3/16!!!!!
    BCP | 11/7/16-11/21/16 | AF 11/25/16
    Saline Infused Sonogram | 11/10/16 | Uterus is all clear
    Egg Retrieval | 12/6/16 | 5 frosties
    AF | 12/18/16 
    FET | 1/6/17 | Transferring 2 frosties
    BFP | 5dp5dt | 1/11/17
    Beta #1 | 1/18/19 | 1190!!!
    Beta #2 | 1/27/207 | 27371
    Ultrasound | 2/6/17 | TWINS!!

  • Very sorry for your loss, and welcome.  FX for a BFP soon
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  • I am so very sorry for your loss. Miscarriages can be devastating, as I know too well. :( I hope you find the support you need here!
  • I am so very sorry for your loss. Miscarriages can be devastating, as I know too well. :( I hope you find the support you need here!

    Thank you so much. I'm sorry for yours as well. It's heartbreaking every time someone says they understand, I wouldn't wish the pain on anyone. I really think I'll find any support I could need at TB! Thank you :)
  • ecmbecmb member
    Sorry for your loss, and welcome.

    Me: 32  Hubby: 31

    Married 12/29/12

    Started TTC July 2014

    Miscarriage August 2014

    Emmett born February 2016

    Expecting Baby #2 in August 2017

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/544e80



  • Lol, that title.  First, I am very sorry for your loss. I hope you find a good home here :)  Welcome!
  • So sorry about the loss :( 

    You have found yourself in a great place...these ladies are awesome

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  • Welcome and sorry for your loss. I was 12 weeks when I had my d&c. I agree it's amazing how attached you can be to someone you've never met/seen. My fiance and I called our baby Guppy. I miss my little guppy every day. Good luck on your journey!
  • Welcome! I am sorry for your loss.

    Me: 24  DH: 25
    Married 2010
    TTC #1
    PCOS
  • kp008073 said:

    And no, not temping! I work night shifts and while I know it's possible and have read about shift work and temping, I work a weird schedule and thought it would be horribly inaccurate temping at 2 PM one day, 8 AM the next, 4 PM the next, 11 AM the next, etc.

    I work night shift and I've found my temps don't vary much if I get the same amount of sleep. For example sometimes I wake up at noon and when I don't work I wake up at 8. I always try to get 7 or 8 hours of sleep though. Your temps may not be as pretty as other charts but it seems you can still see a definate thermal shift. Just thought I'd let u know because I thought temping couldn't be done with wonky schedules.

    I'm so sorry for your loss but welcome to this board and good luck!
  • Welcome and sorry for your loss. I was 12 weeks when I had my d&c. I agree it's amazing how attached you can be to someone you've never met/seen. My fiance and I called our baby Guppy. I miss my little guppy every day. Good luck on your journey!

    I'm so sorry you lost your Guppy. I felt like I was so close to the "safe zone" at 9w4d.. So I can't imagine being 12. I miss mine every day, too.. And how the worst pain can come from missing someone you've never met I'll never be able to understand. I have a really hard time listening to fetal heart tones (even on TV). I'm so glad there are girls who are in it with me!
  • @cattlebride THIS. Thank you so much for this. Sometimes I get 4 hours, sometimes I get 7, sometimes I get 8 but it's split it half throughout the day. I'll start temping and see how it goes, it's always worth a shot! I'll probably be asking for chart help ;) haha

    I'm overwhelmed with the love, girls! Thank you so much for welcoming me... I'm going to keep getting my creepy lurk on and throw myself into the mix! :D
  • tiffk10tiffk10 member
    First, so sorry for your loss.

    Welcome to TB. I also have PCOS. I always think it's nice (not the PCOS obvi) to know other people on the board who are going through something similar. Good luck to you!!
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    Me (26) Him (27)
    Dx PCOS November 2010
    21 cycles TTC
    HSG April 2015 - all clear!
    May 2015 - 5 mg Femara cycle days 3-7 BFN
    June 2015 - 7.5 mg Femara cycle days 3-7 BFN
  • tiffk10 said:

    First, so sorry for your loss.

    Welcome to TB. I also have PCOS. I always think it's nice (not the PCOS obvi) to know other people on the board who are going through something similar. Good luck to you!!

    It's so nice to hear from someone with PCOS! The struggle is real, my friend. Thank you for the welcome!
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