At my first appointment at 8wks, my midwife took bloodwork, did a prenatal exam, etc, but no ultrasound and did not check for heartbeat. At my 12wk appointment, I will meet the OB who will check for the heartbeat using a hand held device, but they don't want to do an ultrasound until my 16 or 20 week appt. Is it normal to have to wait this long? My friend who recommended this office says this is normal and they only do early US if there is something wrong or if you want to pay more money. However, this seems to contradict all of the research I've done. Could this be because our office has midwives and OBs? Any insight would be greatly appreciated.
Re: No US until 16 or 20 weeks??
This time I had a super quick dating scan at 10 weeks. I will have my anatomy scan around 19 weeks and I don't expect another one unless we do a 3D scan and pay for it ourselves.
The exception would be if the pregnancy were high risk or I had complications like cramping or spotting, then we would do one sooner.
I will admit though, at about week 11, I couldn't take it, I went to one of those free mobile pregnancy test/ultrasound labs because I didn't want to wait until wk 18 to know everything was okay (previous early term MC). I was stressing every day and worrying that something was wrong...the US let me relax and start to enjoy the pregnancy because baby measured right on track and had a good strong heartbeat, so I figured it was good for both me and the baby.