My SIL brought her garbage here (all 10 fucking bags) so that DH could bring it to the dump. But, she brought it at 4 in the afternoon. On a Sunday. It will now sit here and waft it's nastiness into MY home for the next fucking week. Thanks. Thank a lot. :-q
Re: Monday bitchfest
I'm still pregnant, and constantly being texted about it. If I go into labor either (a) I'll tell you OR (b) we aren't close enough for you to know, so please leave me alone!
My bitch fest:
1) In-laws are still relentlessly bothering us about telling them what name we've chosen.
2) In-laws unexpectedly showed up with barely a half hour notice yesterday then they wanted us to feed them even though they were going somewhere else 2 hours later.
3) I'll be 40 weeks tomorrow and have had no signs of impending labor. My skin is feeling sooo stretched out and sore and I don't want to go to work anymore!!
4) Having to say "yep, still here" to 5 different people at work this morning.
We didn't tell most people because I don't want the phone calls and texts tonight asking me a million questions because we've been getting all that shit too.
But still getting calls and questions about doc appts and how I'm feeling and all that.
Just leave me the fuck alone!
And my mom is here which is awesome she has been a huge help. But everyone I get a BH contraction or baby kicks hard and I flinch she's like waiting to pounce.
This baby is NOT ready yet and I have to make him come out tomorrow.
2. It's not a horrible thing but I can see it will get annoying very quickly my mother messaging me every morning 7:30am on the dot asking how I'm feeling checking if I'm going into labour lol it's cute now but I can see this changing the further along I get
So today at my ob appt she did the usual, took my weight, blood pressure, checked babies heart. Then said she wasn't doing a cervical exam cuz they might want to do it at the other appt I had that day and that they would decide then if I need to schedule an induction. So I left the ob clinic without discussing an induction, without having a plan or a date.
So I go upstairs to the ADC clinic to get my NST done. She's asking me questions that I don't have answers to because the ob clinic said those things would be decided based on the NST results!! Fortunately, baby is healthy and there were no cause for concerns but at that point I had no further appt scheduled, had not discussed induction with anyone just to be handed a piece of paper with a date and time to call to be told whether or not they were keeping that date and time for my induction.
There was no discussing a date or time with me. No asking what I'm comfortable with. And no one to discuss an induction and what to expect or to go over my preference for how the induction goes. I'm just so frustrated that I was thrown around today and the induction scheduling was done without consulting me or allowing me to consult a doctor about it!!