Due Date for Miscarried Pregnancy

nycmommy13 · May 2015

I'm very thankful to be pregnant again and it's looking like things will work out this time, but today would have been the due date for the baby I miscarried in October. It's starting out to be a harder day than I would have thought. Anyone else going through the same thing?

emmybean123 · May 2015

I actually never kept dates of my miscarriages. They were all very early, although equally as devastating. I've had three, but am now pregnant (13.4 weeks) with my little angel and its a strong un. I view my miscarriages as babies to perfect to need to come to earth. And thAt I have to have been strong to be the one to house them. It can be very hard if you dwell on it, but the sad bit for me was the thought of never successfully having a baby. And now I know in my heart that I can, I feel the loss of my babies but know that non of them suffered and that's what's important. How far along are you? I also feel like this little baby may be the last miscarriage trying again! It feels like a little stubborn fighter to me :-) your baby didn't suffer, don't let yourself suffer more than you can help xx

mamavbs · May 2015

I completely get you. I miscarried in October and I'm absolutely dreading the day coming up

I also have a friend who's due with her baby that exact day! I think it's normal to feel that pang of sadness, you should allow yourself to feel a bit sad today

grief is a necessary thing. I've made sure I have plans that day with my best friend, so I can talk about it if I feel like it. And I think I'm just going to try and be extra thankful for my beautiful 14 week bub in my belly now. ❤️

brielise414 · May 2015

My date just passed…. May 2nd! So lucky me, I got the new princess in my face the whole day. In case you can't tell, even being pregnant, I am still a little bitter. It doesn't help that we have not yet hit the mark of 14 weeks where I lost my last baby, so I'm still paranoid. We just tried to constantly keep busy, and stay thankful that the dr thinks this baby is very strong.

Laurakat81 · May 2015

Those dates are always tough. It's been five years since my first and I still remember the dates the miscarriage happened and their due dates. They aren't as all consuming as they were at one point but I think I'll always be sad on those days. (((HUGS))))

Cshaffer7 · May 2015

I miscarried in December and was 12 weeks along! My due date was June 17 and my good friend had the exact same due date. I am now 11 weeks pregnant and this baby is doing amazing compared to our last pregnancy (all great signs) but it's becoming very scary and sad coming closer to what would have been my due date. I am very blessed to be pregnant with a healthy baby now but am constantly living day by day in fear and feeling and noticing every little thing! I completely understand. Stay strong you aren't alone!

amh0411712 · May 2015

I miscarried Oct of 2013, with an EDD of June 12. I just try to do a random act of kindness every year on June 12 and say a prayer. It helps, it won't take the pain away but somehow focusing on doing a good act helps.

nycmommy13 · May 2015

Thanks everyone! I really like the act of kindness thing. I am 15w Sunday with this one. I was 11w when I miscarried last time, but the baby stopped growing a few weeks before that.

joannk29 · May 2015

I know how you feel, I had a miscarriage In November... I think about my June baby all the time but more so this week because I always think how big I would have been and how my due date is coming up, June 14. It's really hard. I'm sorry you had to go through that in October. Congrats on your new bundle of joy! If you ever need someone to talk to let me n know, I'm here for you.

sswartout · May 2015

I know how you feel as well. I had 3 miscarriages last year and I think about them often, but especially on every due date... next one coming up May 16th. I am 12W5D along with our miracle baby now, and just trying to focus positive energy and prayers on that.

Elle jM · May 2015

Due dates are hard! I had one last month, have one coming up the end of this month, and another in July. Thinking of you!

MarchABC · May 2015

So sorry for your loss and the sadness of this day.

I love amh0411712's idea.

I got pregnant about 3 months after I miscarried (11 weeks but baby stopped growing at 8) so I was also pregnant with DS when my miscarriage EDD came around. I wouldn't have DS1 if I hadn't had a miscarriage. What a blessing I would be missing out on. Things happen for a reason... or at least that's how I feel about it.

mummy2b2twins · May 2015

Mine is coming up on may 15th and i am dreading it. My family and i are going on holiday on monday so will keep myself busy. Its hard when people who were due same time as me are giving birth. But if i hadnt of lost that baby i wouldn't be pregnant with my twins now

Laura&brad1 · May 2015

So sorry for your loss my due date won't be untill start of August but I have 3 friends due then and that makes it really hard I haven't seen any of them since my loss cos I keep thinking that should be me hoping once I have my 12 week scan with this one it will help me to feel better! Stay strong for your beautiful rainbow baby all the best

beckyrus · May 2015

Seems like a lot of us in the same situation. Mine isn't until the end of the month and we will be on vacation so I am hoping to not think about it too much. Only other moms that have been through it understand ....

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