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Two lesbians- starting the journey

hey all,

My wife & I just went to the fertility clinic to learn about our options & figure out our steps on starting the process to get pregnant!

Just wanted to post on here to ask if there's anyone out there like us on here! :) It would be helpful & so nice to talk to some others.

Happy Wednesday!

Re: Two lesbians- starting the journey

  • Hi! No personal experience, but good luck! You may find more help in the "anyone out there like us" vein on the LGBT Parenting Board as well (but of course that doesn't mean you need to leave us :) )
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  • hey all,

    My wife & I just went to the fertility clinic to learn about our options & figure out our steps on starting the process to get pregnant!

    Just wanted to post on here to ask if there's anyone out there like us on here! :) It would be helpful & so nice to talk to some others.

    Happy Wednesday!

    Hello & welcome! I don't know of other LBGTQ couples here, but TBH, I haven't asked! Best of luck to you!


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  • nicosh8nicosh8 member
     I am not having the same experience but welcome and good luck!  :-h
    Me:27 DH:27
    Married: May 2013
    TTC#1 since Nov 2014
    MC June 2015
    MC January 2016
    Compound Hetero MTHFR Gene Mutation
  • Welcome! I know I've read one or two other LGBT intros since I've been here, but not sure if anyone is current. I agree on checking out the LGBT board, but also sticking around here :)
    Me: 28, DH: 28
    Diagnosed with PCOS: Summer 2007
    Married: July 2013
    Began TTC: June 2015

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/58d258

  • Welcome!! Good luck on your journey! :-h
  • nlwz123nlwz123 member
    welcome!




    TTC #1 10/2014
    Low progesterone
    BFP 05/2015
    Baby boy born 01/2016
    Currently: NTNP





     
  • Thanks ladies!!! Excited... A little nervous though!

    It's crazy how much we have to go through to start it.
  • SpalexSpalex member
    Welcome!
    Me: 31 DH: 30
    Married since 8/2013
    TTC #1 since 3/2015
  • Hello, welcome!
  • edited May 2015
    Hi, welcome!

    edit: apparently I can't spell two letter words
  • Welcome and good luck!

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  • Haha, I didn't even notice the mis-spelling. I'm using the bump app & I'm not a fan!
  • Hello and welcome! I also recall reading at least one other recent intro post of another lesbian couple starting their journey. I believe it was maybe 2-3 weeks ago.

    Good luck!!
    TTC since March 2013

    HSG: Sept 2014, clear tubes

    Dx: MFI - Low motility, morph, count (Aug. 2014); Hypothyroidism (May 2015)

    Moved to IUIs October 2014

    IUI #1 w/ injections:  Nov 2014- BFN

    IUI #2 w/ injections:  Jan 2015- BFN

    IUI #3.1 w/ injections:  Feb. 2015, cancelled due to cysts- 10 days BCP

    IUI #3.2 w/ injections:  Feb/March 2015- BFN

    IUI #4 w/ 100mg Clomid +  Injections:  August 2015- BFN

    IUI #5 w/ 5mg Femara + Injections:  September 2015- BFN

    IUI #6 w/ 5mg Femara + Injections:  October 2015 - Cancelled due low response

    Moved to IVF May 2016 

    Retrieved 18 eggs on 05/27/2016, 13 were ICSI'd, 9 made it to day-five transfer

    Transferred 2 beautiful day-five embryos on 06/01/2016, froze 7

    BFP 4dp5dt on 06/05/2016!  Line continued to darken beautifully!

    EDD:  February 17, 2017

    Beta #1:  92

    Beta #2:  305 

    Ultrasound #1 - one baby!

    Ultrasound #2 - saw heartbeat!


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  • SpalexSpalex member

    Haha, I didn't even notice the mis-spelling. I'm using the bump app & I'm not a fan!

    It seems to be extra slow today for some reason
    Me: 31 DH: 30
    Married since 8/2013
    TTC #1 since 3/2015
  • Hi and welcome!
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  • Welcome & best of luck to you :-h

     

    Me 31 DH 41

    TTC #1 since August 2014
    RE August 2015
    Surprise BFP! September 1, 2015
    IT'S A GIRL!!!
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  • tiffk10tiffk10 member
    Welcome!!
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    Me (26) Him (27)
    Dx PCOS November 2010
    21 cycles TTC
    HSG April 2015 - all clear!
    May 2015 - 5 mg Femara cycle days 3-7 BFN
    June 2015 - 7.5 mg Femara cycle days 3-7 BFN
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    Welcome! :-h
  • Welcome and good luck!
  • Welcome to our world. :) enjoy!!!
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  • mrs3615mrs3615 member
    Welcome! Good luck TTC!
    me: 29 DH: 30
    Married 3.6.15
    EDD of Baby S 2.5.16


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    Welcome
  • Welcome to you both!! :D

    Me: 26, DH: 41
    Colin Patrick born on 4/29 via emergency C-section following 41-week induction  <3

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    Me: 27 | DH: 31
    TTC #1 | 12/2014
    IF diagnosis | 12/2015
    IVF #1 | FET 1/6/2017 | Transferring 2
    BFP | 1/11/17
    Ultrasound | 2/6/17 | TWINS!!
    EDD | 9/24/17 | TEAM BLUE!!

    Went off BCP/TTC #1 | 12/2014
    No period or ovulation after going off BCP --> Provera | 2/2015; 4/2015; 6/2015 | no ovulation and no period without Provera
    Cyclic Provera to mimic cycle | 7/2015; 8/2015; 9/2015 | no ovulation and no period without Provera
    HSG --> tubes clear & DH SA | 9/2015
    50 mg Clomid + TI | 10/2015 | no response
    100 mg Clomid + TI | 11/2015 | no response
    RE consult & unexplained IF diagnosis | 12/2015
    5 mg Femara + TI | 12/2015 | AF 1/19/16
    5 mg Femara +TI | 1/2016 | AF 2/17/16
    5 mg Femara + TI | 2/2016 | AF 3/19/16
    5 mg Femara + TI | 3/2016 |  AF 4/16/16
    5 mg Femara +TI | 4/2016 | AF 5/19/16
    HSG --> tubes still clear | 4/2016
    5 mg Femara + Ovidrel + IUI | 5/2016 | AF 6/21/16
    5 mg Femara + Ovidrel + IUI | 6/2016 | AF 7/21/16
    Looking into IVF Clinical Trials | Disqualified from IVF Trial 8/25/16
    Saving up for IVF
    Provera | AF 9/6/16
    5 mg Femara + TI | 9/2016
    IVF Consult | 11/3/16!!!!!
    BCP | 11/7/16-11/21/16 | AF 11/25/16
    Saline Infused Sonogram | 11/10/16 | Uterus is all clear
    Egg Retrieval | 12/6/16 | 5 frosties
    AF | 12/18/16 
    FET | 1/6/17 | Transferring 2 frosties
    BFP | 5dp5dt | 1/11/17
    Beta #1 | 1/18/19 | 1190!!!
    Beta #2 | 1/27/207 | 27371
    Ultrasound | 2/6/17 | TWINS!!

  • Welcome & good luck!
    Me: 37 | H: 44
    **TW**
    TTC #1: May 2015
    IF DX January 2016- Me: Right sided hydrosalpinx 
    Right tube removed: February 2016
    Acupuncture + TCM: March 2016
    BFP: July 4, 2016 | DS: March 2017 (39w 2d)
    TTC #2: April 2019
    BFP #2: April 2019 | CP: April 30, 2019 (4w 2d)
    BFP #3: July 15, 2019
    EDD: March 23, 2020



  • Welcome! And yes, the app often sucks.
    Me 37, DH 37
    Married since 4/2004
    DS born 1/20/16, Graeme
  • Welcome! Good luck TTC!
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  • Hi, and welcome! 

    I just read a Self Magazine article about fertility treatments for gay couples; it was eye-opening.  It might be of interest to you:

    https://www.self.com/work/womens-issues/2015/05/could-you-be-denied-ivf/

    Congratulations on taking the first steps and best of luck!
  • Thanks Beany- I actually have blue cross blue shield :( AND I'm also hung to the same fertility clinic that the couple in the article used! I am so worried about it.
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    10/2014 - Started TTC #1
    8/2015-Clomid with TI - BFN
    9/2015 - Clomid with IUI #1 - BFN
    10/2015 - Clomid with IUI #2 - BFN
    11/2015 - Clomid with IUI #3 - BFN
    1/2016 - Gonal-F with IUI #1 - BFN
    7/2016 - Laparoscopic surgery - stage 1 endo removed
    9/2016 - Gonal-F with IUI #2 - BFN
    10/2016 - Gonal-F with IUI #3 -BFN. Diagnosed with elevated anti-sperm antibodies.
    12/12/16 - Egg retrieval w/ICSI - 4 5-day embryos (2 grade A, 2 grade B.)
    12/17/16 - Fresh transfer of one embryo; 12/27 beta = 141; 12/29 beta= 285. EDD 9/4/17 - MC 1/26/17


  • Marie, maybe the article will cause them to review their policies!  My thought when I read the article was that I would probably lie and say I had been trying naturally for a year... who is going to question you on that?
  • Welcome! Best of luck on your journey! :-)
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