December 2015 Moms

Worried that it's not real

cew810cew810 member
edited May 2015 in December 2015 Moms
I had two positive HPT on Thursday and now I'm freaking out that it's not real. I've had sore breasts , missed period , and exhaustion but symptoms come and go. I am paranoid that it's not real. I had my husband go buy another test to take tonight because im so paranoid. Any others like this ? My last period was sometime around March 25 but I don't remember the exact dates.

Re: Worried that it's not real

  • jjodomjjodom member
    I told my husband that it doesn't seem real. It's like I need to have an immediate prego belly or an ultrasound before I will fully believe it. Lol so excited but so afraid that something will happen. I'm only 6 weeks
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  • cew810cew810 member
    Just took this one
  • cew810cew810 member
    It will suffice for tonight but I'm sure next week I'll be back in the same boat
  • jjodomjjodom member
    Silly as it sounds. Keep it on your night stand. Then you can look at the result when you go to bed/ wake up. I noticed my husband did that with our tests. He says it helps it feel more real.
  • cew810cew810 member
    Good idea !
  • nik6499nik6499 member
    I literally peed on 12 sticks, 5 different brands. Finally I realized it was true and stopped peeing ok sticks ;)
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  • I also have done about 4 more tests to just make sure!!!  I am officially done testing now and first ultrasound is in a week.  My symptoms are mild as well but as someone else has said to me everyone has it different so for now I am grateful :)
  • I have four sticks sitting on my bathroom counter that have been there since mid-late April. I think most feel the same way. It's normal :)

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  • I'm feeling the exact same way. Had tender boobs, some nausea but that is it. 2 positive home tests and a positive urine at the doctors, and no period since mid March. But because I am military, the doctors don't do the first ultrasound until 12 weeks! I'm terrified, I'm going to go in and find out something bad :(
  • jjodomjjodom member
    my insurance only covers one ultrasound... so i don't think i will have one until i find out what it is. :( I've been thinking about taking a HPT while I'm out here traveling for work. just for reassurance. 
  • EEB88EEB88 member
    For me, it's not real until I go to the doctor for the first time. Haha I kept thinking I was having a hysterical pregnancy! Haha! I needed a professional to confirm for me.
  • My first ultrasound I actually asked the tech if there was really something in there, trust me it's not just you that feels that way ^#(^
  • I feel this way too. Did 5 tests and I still wonder sometimes. Having said that, I do have nausea, headaches, swollen breasts and mood swings but I need a bump or u/s to make it feel real! I'm only 5.5 weeks and will have to wait until 12 weeks to have ultrasound cos that's how it is in the UK. Sooo impatient!
  • redfallon said:

    I have four sticks sitting on my bathroom counter that have been there since mid-late April. I think most feel the same way. It's normal :)

    Hah! I love this because this is EXACTLY me. I have 4 on my bathroom counter as well that I just like to peek at every morning. After 3 years of trying I never thought I'd see that second line, so I can't bring myself to throw it out!
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  • Ha you guys are funny. I peed on one stick, got a BFP and then refused to pee on any more! Not because I thought it was for sure right though, but because I didn't want to tempt fate and see a negative on the next one! It said I'm pregnant so I'm pregnant! Lol :)

    Seeing the ultrasound and the doc saying everything looked great absolutely made it more real though :)
  • raevanbraevanb member
    My last period was March 19th and I've already taken three HPT (all positive) but I keep taking them every week until my first ultrasound, which is next Thursday (thank the lord). I feel like I keep wanting to make sure Baby B (that's what my DH & I call it) is still in there even though I definitely feel pregnant with the exhaustion, bloating and hormone headaches. I keep thinking its too good to be true! 
  • I felt the same way and had even convinced myself of a blighted ovum but after my first U/s I heard the heartbeat and morning sickness kicked in around 8 weeks and I'm now 10 weeks and puking morning and night. It's a lot more relief after your first appt.
  • I feel so much better after reading these posts! I will be 8 weeks tomorrow. I had my first ultrasound last Tuesday. Everything looked great. We even got to hear the heartbeat! However a week has gone by and I'm paranoid something's happened. It's like I need confirmation every week that I'm still pregnant. Luckily I go again next Tuesday for another ultrasound, but I will be nervous until then. Since my AMH levels were so low we did IVF w/egg donor. That's why I had an early ultrasound.
  • I never realized pregnancy comes with a boat load of worries, things I worry over I never imagined I'd think of. the first trimester is by far the scariest most worrying time. I'm so ready to be in the clear! 2-3 more weeks!
  • I've had 2 u/s's and seen the HB and it still doesn't seem real. I always check the u/s picture for my name. Haha
  • amama3amama3 member
    Even after I got my pregnancy confirmed at the Pregnancy Resource Center I still feel like it's not real even tho I know it has to be. I'm getting super anxious for my first ultrasound next week(wed) and I'm praying that everything is going well. I think seeing my little bean and hearing the heartbeat will ease my mind and really make it real.
  • Ditto to all of this!
    I haven't had my period since March and had two positive home tests, and a positive blood test. Definitely feeling pregnant with super sore breasts, extreme exhaustion, mild cramping and peeing all the time! I am just so worried I will be the one with the bad news. All my friends have had healthy pregnancies and I have this weird superstition that then I might be the statistic and miscarry. I know its crazy and I'm also the biggest health nut I know, so I'm sure the little seedling is doing well.
    I just keep telling myself to keep doing what I'm doing and things will be fine since no alarming symptoms or bleeding have happened. I hope everyone can find some peace of mind and we'll all make it to that first ultrasound!
  • I completely agree with all of you! When I first tested my guy tried to pick up the second test to get a better look, I smacked his hand. Lol. I thought if he moved the stick, the result would change. We laugh about that now. I way over reacted.
  • Bea321Bea321 member
    I was the same way... I took three tests, all positive. I went to the doctor and took another urine test and she had the positive before I even got out of the bathroom. So I believed it. And my first ultrasound is a week from Monday so I'm definitely excited. I can't wait to see how far along I am. Your symptoms will come, believe me. Just wait a week or two. You won't even need a test to believe it.
  • Well hate to get too honest but there were times that I was holding my newborn and still thinking, "Omg. Is this real? Am I really a mom? This baby is MINE??"
  • I still in shock, I blame the doctors and the one in a million shot, seen baby 2 times, haven't had a period in 2 cycles, I'm 10w3d and yup still can't believe it. I keep telling my mom, I can't believe I'm pregnant how am I pregnant
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