Since when did TB become a bad sequel to Mean Girls?

stormyyautumn · May 2015

You know, I am so unbelievably disappointed in how some of you women act. Bullying and internet bullying contributes to SO much teenage depression and suicide these days and yet here you all are, doing exactly that. For those of you who partake in the internet bullying that I have seen occur on this website forum, I pray and hope like hell that your kids aren't victims of bullying.. and I REALLY hope and pray that you GROW UP and teach them how horrible bullying is.

Having a difference of opinions does NOT give you the right to start acting like you're 15 year old girls. Act like an adult, accept that someone feels differently than you and MOVE THE HELL ON. It doesn't mean you start name calling and it sure as hell doesn't mean that you have to keep the crap going on and on and on again in multiple posts. It's SO childish and stupid and all you're doing is making yourself look immature and ignorant.

I'm sure this post will be reported, or I'll have a TON of negative comments from the internet bullies, and that's OK.. I pretty much expect it at this point.

kladd7182 · May 2015

Have you noticed that a lot of the time the "bullies" are not the ones to throw personal punches first? It is the people that don't like that the "bullies" opinion differs from theres? It causes retaliation.

kladd7182 · May 2015

By the way, making a big post and public spectacle makes you any better how? Especially considering that you are judging parenting skills? If you want to go there, game on.

AmommyB · May 2015

I guess that's your perspective. You are talking about a specific incident today that totally got out of hand and that's where I stop agreeing with you. When you instigate, and call someone names there are good odds that more than one person is going to come back with something less than nice to say. I have no sympathy for someone that takes an adult argument to the next level by childish name calling. If you want to be snarky then chances are people will gladly return the favor.

stormyyautumn · May 2015

There's a point where as an adult you have to be the bigger person and not stoop to their level. Continuing to rant and post about the person who may or may not have thrown the first punch makes you JUST as bad as they are.

kladd7182 · May 2015

stormyyautumn said:
There's a point where as an adult you have to be the bigger person and not stoop to their level. Continuing to rant and post about the person who may or may not have thrown the first punch makes you JUST as bad as they are.

Hi Pot, I'm Kettle.

Do you see how this post is NO better?

stormyyautumn · May 2015

If the shoe fits, wear it. I never called anyone out specifically... so if you feel some personal way about what I said then that's on you.

lindsaypkelly · May 2015

stormyyautumn said:
There's a point where as an adult you have to be the bigger person and not stoop to their level. Continuing to rant and post about the person who may or may not have thrown the first punch makes you JUST as bad as they are.

So then you're saying you're just as bad too?
Youre doing literally the exact thing youre bitching about by "continuing to rant and post"
How about you "MOVE THE HELL ON" as you suggested.

kladd7182 · May 2015

I don't feel any personal way, but apparently you are to stuck in your own opinion to think outside of your own personal box. You are no better, this post is not only shaming, but judgemenal. The only difference is it's nicer than the other posts. You got into the mean girl category as well, you just go about it differently.

stormyyautumn · May 2015

How am I bullying anyone by calling out what I see happening?? Again, I never personally attacked anyone. I simply made a post about internet bullies and if YOU personally feel some way about it, that's not my fault.

crf4 · May 2015

Seriously this is just an annoying post. If someone feels bullied then they don't need to be here. Idk what kind of friends you have in RL but I don't just sugar coat everything and tell my friends what the want to hear. Truth hurts sometimes and while I may not personally name call others; I wouldn't write a butt hurt post about those who do.

mom3babies · May 2015

Lol. But yet your making a post entirely about it. It seems funny when you point out for these adults to move on when people don't agree with what you say but yet the ones that get all defensive and start being rude in the first place are the ones that are the original posters or people white knighting. Posts that ask for opinions are going to get them and if you can't take the heat of getting real responses instead of glitter and rainbows then you need to get off a PUBLIC FORUM! Nobody here is going to kiss your ass and agree with everything you say except for the needy bitches who have no real concept of life. there's a difference between giving an opinion and bullying. You ladies need to realize that just cause some people don't agree with you and being honest doesn't mean they are being bullys. I love how your post states that name calling is childish and ignorant...pot meet kettle cause I'm pretty sure you just did that in your POINTLESS post!!! Have a great day in fantasyland lady!

stormyyautumn · May 2015

Name calling is not being honest. You should really look into the differences between those.

nimble33 · May 2015

You've said people are bullies for calling out what people are saying but you've done just that?? Yet you can't even see it..

stormyyautumn · May 2015

My post isn't about being honest with people it's about being a BULLY.

kladd7182 · May 2015

stormyyautumn said:
How am I bullying anyone by calling out what I see happening?? Again, I never personally attacked anyone. I simply made a post about internet bullies and if YOU personally feel some way about it, that's not my fault.

Calling attention to the situation is not helping matters. The situation has been over for hours, yet you feel the need to make a big post about mean girls. I told you I don't feel any specific way about it, you fail to see my point. You can't get over yourself enough to understand you just added fuel to the fire that already was out.

stormyyautumn · May 2015

If it added fuel to your fire then again, that's on you. Obviously you feel some personal attack from my post otherwise you wouldn't be so defensive about it. I'm just confused though because if you're not doing the bullying then what are you worried about??

AmommyB · May 2015

I'm so glad I'm not the only one annoyed with this post. It's not only passive aggressive but extremely hypocritical. Technically you shouldn't create a post calling people out for being mean and then call them names and challenge their parenting. It's not mean girls, it's an even better show called, "Welcome to real life, where noone is going to hold your hand and say everything you do is ok because it isn't. " When you take the plunge and start a confrontation, real life is what you get. Now I will take your sage advice and move the hell on because this was nothing more than a self indulgent attempt to rally troops.

jennykayt89 · May 2015

Bully?

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