October 2015 Moms

Miscarriage worries :(

I am 16 weeks & 2 days... & am still so worried about miscarriage. My sister had a missed miscarriage around 16 weeks & the baby's heart just stopped beating. I am so worried. I've been getting some mild cramping, it just comes & goes.. I'm guessing that's me stretching , but I'm still so worried :(

Re: Miscarriage worries :(

  • I had this fears until I could feel my first kicking me all day every day. I have those fears with this baby too. I think it's only natural, especially with what your sister went through. Try to just let go a little and have faith that it's going to be OK. Hugs!
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  • I had this fears until I could feel my first kicking me all day every day. I have those fears with this baby too. I think it's only natural, especially with what your sister went through. Try to just let go a little and have faith that it's going to be OK. Hugs!

    I agree 100% with this.
  • LLynde5LLynde5 member
    I completely understand. I was born a worrier:( And when someone close to you goes through something like that it adds to the worrying. My next appointment is in a week and leading up to them I get very nervous and then the following weeks I feel great until my next appointment is a week or so away. I also feel like every time we tell another person I am jinxing my pregnancy. I am between 15-16 weeks and though once I hit the second trimester I would relax some. Wishing you and your sweet little one a happy, healthy remainder of your pregnancy:)
  • nsaid4unsaid4u member
    I worry about the same thing mama, & I really don't have any reason to. I have had 3 healthy babies but I think when you're pregnant worrying comes with the territory. For me I worry a lot until I have a doctors appointment or an ultrasound and then I get reassured again.but it seems like a few days later I'm back on the worrying train. try to keep positive mama :-)
  • My mother miscarried twice, once in the first trimester and once at the end of the second/beginning of the third. It's a constant fear for me. Almost everytime I go to the bathroom I expect to see blood. My husband thinks I'm crazy but he married me knowing I was a chronic worrier. I worry with every ache and pain that something awful has happened. Now I'm worried about results from our Integrated Testing.
  • I worry too and I don't have anyone close (that I know of) that miscarried. It's normal. We just can't let it control our lives or emotions. You aren't alone.
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