no longer choose to share my thoughts

mommyto3tobee · May 2015

On Here because everyone seems to criticize you about them thank you

Tiff1st · May 2015

It's so sad to see and hear their stories! I feel so bad for woman who have stillborn babies! It breaks my heart!! They go into labour knowing their babies aren't alive no more and it's just so sad! How do you deal with something like that?! It's just so sad! I just pray God takes care of those babies! It's sad because they don't get a chance at life! At least they go to a better place!

missemmawoodhouse · May 2015

To be kind to posters who have lost babies, you really need to put a trigger warning in the title. Please edit your title @mommyto3tobee

makeoutside7 · May 2015

I will say that my sister in law and brother had a 8 month still born and it was the saddest moment of my entire family's life. We were not prepared and did not know that our first hello would also be our goodbye to our little angel. I am still traumatized to this day and still have flashbacks and break down every time I think about it. But I choose not to live or dwell in those moments. I am pregnant today and my baby is healthy today. I just take it one day at a time. Think positive and focus on the good. Choose not to live your life in fear of the unknown or in fear of something that is out of your control. Best wishes to you!

dramaphile · May 2015

It's natural to have morbid curiosity! I definitely listened to a podcast about stillbirth and probably shouldn't have. I had to turn it off so I didn't tear up at my desk at work. It was sad,
But a really beautiful story. I would say try to focus on positive things and educate yourself and try to resist the urge to obsess about it. Maybe read/watch some stories about premature babies that survive and the amazing medical technology available today. Watching those sad videos is ok, but obsessing about it is not going to help your state of mind.

mommyto3tobee · May 2015

Yes I don't anymore but I Just pray for those couples that have gone thru that drama and pray for everyone to have a safe and healthy pregnancy I mean no harm or offend anyone. .

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kwaldy · May 2015

My cousin gave birth to a stillborn son at about 25 weeks. It breaks my heart and rocked the family. She just recently gave birth to a beautiful, healthy, full term baby girl... but knowing that loss is possible even late in the game makes me worry, especially because I witnessed it first hand.
Prayers for healthy and wonderful pregnancies for all of you ladies! Congratulations

kestes946 · May 2015

It is very sad to experience. I lost my 2 month old baby girl and it has by far been the hardest thing I went through and hopefully will ever go through. I do have fears that something will happen during this pregnancy but I'm choosing to trust in my God and not waste away to fear and worry. Please be sensitive to those who've actually gone through losing a child and be careful what is written, it's not a spectacle nor a topic to be very curious about, or at least in my opinion. Thanks!

mommyto3tobee · May 2015

No its not curiousity but it is the truth I'm simply stating that I feel terribly bad for mothers that go thru this and I wish nobody will ever gave to .Idk why everyone is making a big deal like I don't feel I offended anyone I was just saying I pray everyone has a beautiful healthy safe pregnancy and babies thank you to those who agreed but I meant no harm in all means

oliviaann91 · May 2015

Infant loss is a horrible thing. In my opinion this post was a bit crass. It is not a pain you can "imagine". Remember, this is a forum for pregnant women. Most of whom choose not to dwell on this topic.