TTC After a Loss

Marking EDD

Today is my EDD for my loss in Septmber. I had some expectations of this day and never believed I would still be TTC today. I also thought that I would be really upset. I have done a lot of work to move past my loss but today is still hard, especially being under a lot of other stress right now. Has anyone else had their EDD, did anyone do anything special to mark the day?

Re: Marking EDD

  • So sorry for your loss. My EDD isn't till sept. We will be trying for the first time this month. Hope you get your BPF soon!
  • Hugs!
    BFP 2/11/15 (EDD 10/13/15). MMC 3/30/15 D&C 4/3/15 "We will always love you"
    DD1 - BFP 7/23/15 (EDD 3/31/16).  "We believe in you rainbow" DOB 4/2/16
    DD2 - BFP 2/9/18 (EDD 10/19/18).  "Grow baby grow!" DOB 10/24/18
    BFP 11/16/20 (EDD 7/31/21).  "Round 3 FIGHT!"
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  • Sorry for your loss! Mine is next month for my first loss. It's definitely tough to think about! I hope you plan something super fun for yourself today.
  • I am so sorry for your loss. My EDD is June 16th and I am already dreading it, I know I am going to be devastated that day...
    I also hoped I would be pg by now...sending you hugs and strength. XOXO

    Me: 38 DH: 42.
    Married: 9/2008.
    4/2010 - BFP (Natural)
    12/2010 - DS born.
    8/2014-TTC#2 
    10/2014 BFP
    10/2014 Confirmed MC at 5 weeks
    5/2015 BFP
    8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks  :'(
    11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
    3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
    4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
    DOR
    Hypothyroidism
    MTHFR
    DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
    AMH .65
    8/2016 FET #1 BFN
    9/2016 IVF-ER #2  1 normal embryo.
    11/2016 IVF-ER #3  0 Embryos
    2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
    5/2017  BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!


  • I hope you are feeling better now that it is past. I don't look forward to mine in September. I know that when the time comes I will deal with it but for now I have to just try to think about other things like TTC again. My EDD is on our anniversary so I'm hoping that my fiancé and I will be doing something to keep our minds off of the loss. I'm also hoping to be PG again by then. Really I'm hoping that we succeeded this month actually. I have a good feeling but I'm trying not to get my hopes up too much. We shall see!
  • Thanks everyone. Aside from it also being CD1 I actually did not have that bad of a day. I planted in our garden and was really positive about moving forward on our TTC journey
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