Sex is... not fun. SUPER TMI — The Bump
May 2011 Moms

Sex is... not fun. SUPER TMI

I don't really know how to describe what's going on with my sex life at this point. It's really sad because DH and I used to be pretty darn hot and heavy. Don't get me wrong, I do whatever I can to please him, and he's still hungry for it and satisfied, but we are having trouble with ME. I can NOT enjoy sex, and I don't know if it's all in my head, or if I'm really experiencing something strange. For starters, baby will be perfectly still and fine unless DH wanders down to the nether regions with his mouth. THEN she wants to move around like no tomorrow and I can't concentrate on what he's doing, and it's so WEIRD that she starts going crazy ONLY at that moment EVERY.SINGLE.TIME. Sex itself doesn't really feel like anything. IT's almost like I'm numb down there. Is this happening TO ANYONE ELSE? It is SO incredibly, extremely frustrating! 
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Re: Sex is... not fun. SUPER TMI

  • I felt the same way when I was pregnant! I could very rarely get into it because my daughter would start moving and honestly it kind of freaked me out.
    If she only really moves at certain times I would avoid whatever it is he does right then. I wish I could be more help, but you aren't alone in this awkward feeling.
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  • I wish i was numb, i feel super sensitive there that every sensation is multiplied by 1000 and it sucks! I hate being touched and stopped trying to accept it and poor hubby is dealing with it.. I asked moms about it and they told me things slowly go back to normal after baby comes so just hang in there!
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