as a family we have always had a shower for our first Girl and our first boy no matter what order they come in. Usually the second shower is just clothes and dopers because you would mainly have everything else!
For the kids in between we do a gender reveal party with not gifts but some people feel the need to bring them even when asked not to.
Anyways it's always super fun. What are some "shower traditions" you have if you have any if not what are you doing?