Looking for anyone who's experienced both...
After our anatomy scan at 21 weeks, my midwife called to tell us they had found a Choroid Plexus Cyst (normal-ish...) and that my umbilical cord is a Single Vessel Cord. Yikes.So, because that is 2 "soft signs", we have to go for a Level II Ultrasound at McMaster. I am waiting to be contacted with the appointment time (Requisition was sent by her Thursday, now it's Monday).
She did say his anatomy scan was good, growth was good, heart was good...that they need to look at kidneys and "just didn't see everything they needed to see".
Needless to say I have turned her words over a million times, struggling not to call her and shine a light in her face and say TELL ME EVERYTHING YOU KNOW, OR DID YOU ALREADY?! She did say because the rest looks good, theyare likely isolated from each other...
From what I have read, most of the time there's nothing to really worry about (except some of the risks that come with SUA). But that tiny threat of a chromosomal issue eats at me a little.
How do you keep calm? I go from being cool and calm and sure it's all fine, to crying and worrying and obsessing like a madwoman. The stress of it exhausts me and I want to hide away til I have answers. I love this baby. I love him and all I want is for this to be easy.
Anyone experience this? Any advice/experiences/shutuphe'sprobablyfine is much appreciated.
*breathes*
Re: SUA...and a Choroid Plexus Cyst.
I am not sure how religious you are, but try and pray, and talk it out with family/friends. Thats what is helping me.
Good Luck
I've seen many posts saying the same thing the NP told me; that they usually go away and I shouldn't worry. But I can't help but be a little scared for my daughter.