I just started my second trimester and the entire first trimester I was SO TURNED OFF when the opportunity arrose. Did second trimester get better for anyone??? I feel SO bad for my man... But I am NOT INTERESTED in being touched and it sucks!
I was the same way during my first trimester, I was always tired and knocked out by 730 PM & was so tired and sick I never wanted to be touched!!! Now that I am in my second trimester things have totally changed! LOL, I now have energy and find every little thing my man does very... How can I say? Arousing (TMI) lol. It gets better.. These second-trimester hormones have made me more affectionate and have increased my need for intimacy. Hopefully the same will happen for you and your man!
I'm not interested, either. But it's not just being pregnant - it's basically always. I WANT to have the desire, I just don't. I usually have so much on my mind, worrying what DD is getting into, etc. The best time for us is when she's napping and I can relax and enjoy DH. Sometimes it takes a bit of forcing myself but once we get the ball rolling I usually always enjoy it.
@yoopermom824 I'm with you... I never had a sex drive BEFORE I got pregnant... I always feel bad, and I still feel bad... I'm trying to be better since this baby was a TOTAL accident and he was NOT happy that it happened... so its always "now you get what you want and I never get what I want" (meaning sex)... but its hard... Doesn't help we have had 2 bleeding scares due to sex and now I'm terrified...
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