So at my last appointment (36 weeks) I asked my dr when they start checking to see if I am dilated or effaced at all and she said that they really don't do that anymore until I'm in labor. I thought that was kind of weird. Anyone else's dr not checking until go time? Should I maybe request that she checks this at each appointment?
Re: Dilating and effacing
She wanted to check again today, but I just had it last Thursday. I'd prefer she check as little as possible because not only is it uncomfortable during, but cramping and spotting afterwards happens too.
Seems like every doctor is different!