How far along would you be?

yl1m32015 · March 2015

I often think about how far along Id be in my pregnancy had I not miscarried. Today Id be around 5 months along. I'd have ultrasound pictures on the fridge, my DH and I would be arguing over names and my mom and I would be planning my shower. Id be looking at maternity clothes and registering for nursery furniture.

But I don't have any of that. It's so heartbreaking. I feel like my whole life all I've ever wanted was to be a mother. I know I'm a mother to my child in Heaven, but no one else sees me as a mother. To the outside world, I'm not. That's just a hard pill to swallow.

Do you think about how far along you'd be? Or would your kids have been born already?

4N6s · March 2015

My due date was April 8th. Depressing that I won't have a baby in a few weeks and that I'm not pregnant.
Sigh.

nerdymama15 · March 2015

I would have been 12 weeks on 03/16/15. Due date was 09/28/15.

lilp2015 · March 2015

I would of been 13 weeks and 3 days. Due date was Sept. 19th

Susannah Lee · March 2015

I would have been 38 weeks with my twins, they likely would have arrived by now, but I'm dreading my due date in 2 weeks. My second pregnancy also ended in a loss. I would have been 13 weeks with that baby. It really does suck, particularly when you see other people at the same stage you would have been.

Breeski2 · March 2015

I would be almost 20 weeks, due Aug 11. I think about it all the time.

mzemmylu · March 2015

I would be 10 weeks & 3 days due date was 10/15/15. I miscarried at 7 weeks. I still think about it every day

sunshinensilk4E · March 2015

I would be 29 weeks, I went into preterm labor almost 8 weeks ago. My due date was 6/12/15. I think about how different life was going to be once Laniya Catalina arrived. I was so excited to be 5 months thinking the hard part was over, never ending vomiting! This was my first pregnancy, I pray that God Blesses us all again! I don't wish the pain of losing a baby on anyone.

adrimolina · March 2015

My due date was June 16th a week before my bday. I would've been 28 weeks today...So heartbreaking, it doesn't get easier. Think about it every day..

jessicabauernj · March 2015

7 weeks 5 days. Nov 6 was my due date. I just found out it is all too real today. Im so sorry for all of you.

carrieandr · March 2015

Hey @jessicabauernj, I'm just joining you from November 2015. Found out this morning and waiting to miscarry. I'm sad we're both here.

aray06 · March 2015

I lost my pregnancy in Jan at almost 25 weeks (it was a tfmr). I'd be almost 36 weeks right now. I lost Sophia about 2 weeks after setting up the nursery and buying a bunch of new baby clothes. We have started TTC again, but my period is all out of whack, so who knows when we will be successful. I miss my baby all the time. And I feel like right now everyone is pregnant but me.

I have a 4year old. Its hard when people ask if she has siblings. The other day I said she was the best child ever and she said no. We asked who was and she said sissy. She is mourning the loss, as well. Sometimes we sit and cry together. We have sissy's heartbeat in a build a bear and we have her foot prints. I also have her ashes... But I wish I had her.

bntfroggie · March 2015

12 Weeks today, my due date was October 13th I'm honestly dreading the whole month of October. This wound is still so fresh I just found out yesterday :-(

kborders15 · April 2015

I would be 27 weeks, due June 30th. Lost our little angel at 11 weeks and I cant get past it. Its the worst pain I have ever felt.

babybluesnapdragon · April 2015

I would be just over 14 weeks... I think about it constantly! It seems like everyone around me right now is pregnant including my sister who is not excited about her pregnancy:( i sometimes feel guilty for being ready to ttc again. And then the reality sets in that I have no idea how long it will take to become pregnant again. We tried for a year and a half before we found out we were pregnant with our angel baby, just to miscarry at 10weeks. I have days where I am ok with the loss and I have days where this cloud of anger and sadness follows me, my husband is a great support system though even though I know he still suffering the loss too

Lexie Marie · April 2015

I'd be coming out of the 1st trimester today at 13 weeks.

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